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Showing posts with label women sex. Show all posts
Showing posts with label women sex. Show all posts

Wednesday, October 29, 2014

What Makes Women Cry After Sex?

In the recent period many experts are focused on this phenomenon. What makes women cry after sex?

The opinion about the cause of this crying are divided. Some say that these are tears of joy because of the excellent sex intercourse while others believe that such outbursts of emotions are direct consequence of some deeper problems in the relationship or in the woman herself.

It is a well known fact that for some young women sex is not such a pleasant experience. In fact, many of them feel depressed after having sex. This is not a case of clinical depression – it is rather a moment of bad mood followed with sadness and large amount of tears.

Female reactions on sexual acts and orgasms are very different and they can be viewed in the wrong way. Some women simply erupt without any particular reason and go through various emotional phases like tears, laughter, intensive crying etc.

Many psychiatrists share the same opinion – women rarely cry because of a good sex. They cry mostly because they have some problems that are bothering them before and especially after the sex act is finished. Some experts suggest that there are three types of women that are crying after sex .

The first group of women is those who are suffering from anorgasmia. They simply cannot achieve intense orgasm or they have troubles achieving it. And when they experience such disappointment after all the emotional and physical efforts it is quite natural to expect tears and sadness.

The other group of women has some sort of remorse, emotional and instinctive part of their personality want to have sex with the partner because of all the emotions and passion but the rational part knows that a sexual intercourse like that is wrong. After the sex is finished the woman feels guilt and questions her decision.

Finally, the third group consists of women has frequent sexual intercourses and with every sexual intercourse they believe that they will keep their partner and build a more serious relationship. Once they are finished with the act they realize that they haven’t accomplished anything.

Although the reason for crying is sometimes obvious there are cases when both the women and her partner are wondering what the exact problem is. We are presenting three most common problems related to this occurrence.

First and foremost, this might be a case in situations where there is a problem in the relationship. Although sometimes people think that they are in a perfect relationship they often don’t talk about certain problems and leave them aside. In this cases sex can be a trigger for these emotions.

Fear of bonding is another reason why some women cry. Thinking about whether your partner will leave you or not or whether you are attractive or not can lead to crying after the sex is finished.

Finally, in some cases we can blame the hormones. During the sex act hormones are going crazy so if you can’t stop crying once the sex is over there is a good chance that you have some hormonal problems and you need to visit your doctor. 

Sunday, March 10, 2013

Better sex again from Esquire

We always discuss about better sex here. And today want to share with you some better sex tips from Esquire. It's quite similar to what we have discuss before, but I am going to share it again then you know how important it is.

You will be very familiar with this. Tell her she looks good and Taste good as well. When you tell her that she looks good, she will feel more comfortable and have a better mood for sex. It's important, sometimes the girls are not so confident with their body, if you tell them they look good they may feel better. When guys go down on his partner for oral sex, your compliment can help her to enjoy more.

Remember that we said that it's important to communicate if you want a better sex life? Yes, Esquire point it out that using your ears, ask them what they like and listen to it. They suggest that not to do it in the bedroom but discuss it some where else, this is gonna be exciting, it's like a foreplay outside the bedroom. It's gonna blow when both of you are in the room.

Touch her. Yes, you do know this, and touch her everywhere, with oil. Girls being touch and this will help them to get into the mood for sex. Touching her and it will release her hormones, raise their testosterone level and ignites her sex drive. This little adventure around her body will help you to have a passionate sex.

Take your time to undress, when you see stripper strip their dress off piece by piece, it's very tempting right? That's the point, don't rush to sex so soon, take your time, it will finally pay off. Make sure you don't smell bad, girls are sensitive to smell, if you have the time take a bath. You don't want to ruin a good sex just because you smell bad.

Remember that girls need to feel comfortable while having sex? If you want a better sex you have to help her to get into a more relax mood. Turn the lights down, candle lights may help to create a better environment. Studies also shows that when hug is more than 30 seconds, it will raise their anticipation for sex. It's not that hard to have better sex right?

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

Powerful women have less sex?

Read an article online mentioning this. The funny thing about it, they post a photo of Angelina Jolie and Brat Pitt. Are they trying to tell people that Angelina Jolie have less sex? I'm not sure about Brat Pitt but if I have a girl like Angelina Jolie, sorry to say so but I will tend to have lots of sex. Of course it depend on the response of the other party.

So back to our topic, powerful women tend to have less sex? Where do they get a conclusion like this? The research found that Americans have less sex compare to other country, it may be partly because the women are tired after work. Quote from the article, they are too tired to have sex. We always say that the technology help us so much in our life but it seems like we are more busier than old days. Have you ever wonder why we are so busy all the time and have you stop for a while and think what do you want in your life? We have to keep a balance in life, work and family. If we are even too busy to have sex, isn't that a bad thing in life? We are not improving at all and it seems like everyone of us are becoming a slave of money, busy working all the time.

It does make sense to see why people protest against the giant companies in Wall Street. Money can give you a good life but it doesn't make life good itself, you still have to make it wonderful. Maybe I can put it this way, money is like Iphone, but the phone is not special if it doesn't have those wonderful apps to support it. RIP Steve Job.

Back to the sex thing, research also found that if women are in charge of the finance in the family, she will have less sex as well. Other than busy, I wonder the power that women gain in the family makes the man less masculine thus make him less attractive for sex?