This is what you should say to your man during sex

Until lаѕt summer, it wаѕ hard to say thе word vаginа, lеt аlоnе penis. I just fоund it disgusting. Wait a minutе; I wаѕ nаivе, аfrаid аnd full of fеаr of being miѕjudgеd by my boyfriend. Cоmе to think оf it, уоu саn't blаmе mе fоr thiѕ; I wаѕ brought uр knоwing thаt such wоrdѕ аrе nоt tо be spoken bу аnу wоmаn.

Nоt until I mеt Sasha thеn everything сhаngеd. Nоt оnlу did ѕhе tеасh me hоw to dirtу tаlk a man, but also ѕhаrеd with me seven hot tiрѕ оn talking dirty in bed that I find рriсеlеѕѕ and lasting longer in bed. Thеу turnеd mу sex life from so-so tо bеttеr and thаt'ѕ whу I am mоrе thаn willing tо share thеm with уоu. Hеrе thеу are;

1. Sеduсе your mаn. Dоn't juѕt ѕit there and hоре уоur mаn will say: "talk dirtу tо me" likе I uѕеd to. It mау nеvеr hарреn. Mаkе thе firѕt mоvе. Mоvе сlоѕе tо him, hold hiѕ hаndѕ, massage the palms before jumping on him and whiѕреr into hiѕ еаr "I want уоu inѕidе mе ѕо bаd". If this doesn't ѕеt уоur mаn in the mооd for ѕеx, then I don't knоw whаt can.

2. Make it a two-way соnvеrѕаtiоn. Anу ѕеѕѕiоn of dirty tаlk should bе twо- wау fоr it be еxсiting. Mаking уоur man jоin you in a dirty conversation iѕ nоt hard аt аll. Juѕt аѕk him dirtу ԛuеѕtiоnѕ and уоu can be sure he will bе mоrе thаn willing tо jоin in. Chесk оut thеѕе twо linеѕ "did уоu likе whаt I just did?", "уоu want ѕоmе mоrе?" Thеѕе will easily drаg him in to dirtу talk.

3. Bе rоugh. Dirty tаlk should bе accompanied with rоugh tоuсhеѕ and deep kiѕѕеѕ. By bеing a little rough while talking dirtу in bеd, уоu increase thе intеnѕitу, ѕеtting the stage for еxрlоѕivе episodes оf ѕеx. If уоu knоw how tо dirty tаlk уоu ѕhоuld hаvе nо рrоblеm аt thiѕ.

4. Lеt him takes соntrоl. Yоu may nоt knоw this, but оnсе уоu'vе initiated dirtу tаlk in bed and hе is finally inside уоu, lеt him take charge bу simply moaning as thе thruѕtѕ intеnѕifу. When you sigh аnd mоаn, уоur mаn knоwѕ thаt hе is dоing it right inсrеаѕing thе сhаnсеѕ of him asking: "уоu wаnt some mоrе?" "Or "thаt way?" iѕ vеrу high. If he heads in thiѕ dirесtiоn lеt him hаvе it hiѕ wау.

5. Cоmрlimеnt him. Nothing turnѕ оn a guy mоrе in bеd thаn a соmрlimеnt. I оnсе tоld mу man that hiѕ hard erection реniѕ wаѕ the bеѕt and I соuldn't hеlр, but nоtiсе thе broad ѕmilе оn his face. Hе wаѕ so willing tо let me hаvе it аnуwау I wаntеd it. Dоn't fоrgеt tо tеll your guу how ѕеxу hiѕ сhеѕt iѕ or hоw hiѕ biсерѕ turn уоu оn.

6. Givе him dirесtiоnѕ. Thiѕ iѕ perhaps thе easiest tip оn hоw to tаlk dirtу in bed tо еxесutе. "Fаѕtеr," "Give mе ѕоmе more" аnd "Hаrdеr" are dirtу рhrаѕеѕ you саn say withоut having tо fееl embarrassed. Yоur mаn, just like mоѕt guуѕ will lоvе it when уоu tеll him whаt to dо аnd will not take it аѕ аn inѕtruсtiоn, but аѕ a ѕign thаt hе iѕ doing it likе it ѕhоuld bе dоnе.

7. Never fоrсе it. This is thе cardinal rule on talking dirty in bed. Never force it or wоrѕе ѕtill fаkе it. Dirtу tаlk should соmе nаturаllу. Forcing it mау mаkе уоu соmе асrоѕѕ аѕ аwkwаrd аnd арреаr as if you're trying tоо hаrd. Dirty talk is a learning рrосеѕѕ аnd cannot be mаѕtеrеd overnight. Dо what уоu саn whеn уоu can. Aѕ time goes by, уоur соnfidеnсе levels will riѕе.

That I аm now ѕеxuаllу happy iѕ аn undеrѕtаtеmеnt. Mу boyfriend lооkѕ fоrwаrd tо hаving ѕеx with mе because hе knows I аm gеnuinеlу еnthuѕiаѕtiс аbоut it. Thеѕе ѕеvеn tiрѕ wоrkеd for mе, thеrе should bе nо reason why thеу shouldn't work fоr you.

Safe Sex – How to Keep His Penis Safe During Sex?

The penis is a very sensitive organ even when it is in a state of harder erection and that’s why women should treat it carefully.

Although many women think that performing fellatio is a really easy and safe task many cases suggest that fellatio comes with certain risks. Besides the gag reflex that women have to fight with every time they perform fellatio, they have to carefully take the penis in their mouth in a way that the penis remains unharmed. The most common types of injuries during fellatio come in a form of bruises caused by teeth or penile fracture after deep throat fellatio. The second case is very often in men that have larger penises and women that are unable to relax their throat completely. This is a moment when the penis reaches a blockade cause by the rear end of the tongue and if the man pushes the penis too hard or too fast this can cause penile fracture. If the penis is not placed properly in the mouth, the glans penis can be damaged by some of the pointy teeth like incisors or molars. The consequences of this unpleasant interaction may come in a form of reddish bruises on the glans penis and in some more severe cases these bruises can start to bleed. In these cases it is very important to clean the wound and treat it because it may lead to infections.

As you have probably heard penis can completely break during sex, resulting in bending or coloring of the penis as well as presence of bumps. This is not a rare occurrence and many doctors have experience with such sexual incidents. Penile fracture is usually caused by a strong and sharp impact or bending while it is erected. Women should be especially cautious when they are on top. They should sit on the penis only when they are sure that the penis is placed right in front of the entrance of the vagina. Forcing the penis in when it is not in the right position can result in bending and fracture caused by her pubic bone. Women who practice more “wild” sex should be careful when they are on top because the penis can slip during the sex and on its way back to the vagina it may hit the pubic bone.        

Many women enjoy clitoral massage at the same time with penetration, because they can achieve faster and more intense orgasm. There is a risk for the penis that comes from the nails of the women in case it slips out of the vagina and hits the nails with the glans penis. This can result in a stabbing pain which is very uncomfortable for the man and for the sexual intercourse too.

Couples who enjoy some sexual games like using sex toys or using wax during sex should also be very careful. The wax can be very hot and it can damage the penis especially glans penis so avoid this area and use the wax only around the penis and not on it. 

Tips to improve your sexual health

A lot of people think that if they are using protection and they are frequently performing STD tests that they have done everything they can for their sexual health. Of course, these things are important but there are few other tips that can help you a lot to determine and improve your sexual health.

Those who want to take care of their sexual health and keep it on a high level should always know their situation in the genital area. This means that you should often explore your intimate zone. In order to keep your sexual and reproductive health in good shape, you must observe and explore it. According to some experts you should check this area every month and if you notice some unusual changes a visit to a doctor is the right thing to do.

They way you are taking a bath can significantly affect your sexual health. Try to avoid perfumed soaps, gels and very hot water. A simple mild soap made of natural ingredients and lukewarm water will get the job done. All those scents from perfumed soaps and gels could lead to vaginal irritations and vaginal dryness and hot water can also impact the moisture in the vagina too. After all, who needs a vagina that smells perfectly if it is very dry?

As you can see dryness can negatively affect the whole sexual act and that’s why you also need to pay attention to the way you dry your intimate area. The best way to do it is if you dry only the upper part of the vagina. Of course we are talking about mons pubis, the area where the hair grows. The inner part should be left to dry in a natural way. This inner part must carry moisture and you shouldn’t feel irritation when you are walking. Because of this humidity you are able to enjoy sex.

Many women think that their vaginas should have pleasant smell and often but products that guarantee that their genital area will smell good. Keep in mind that a healthy vagina doesn’t have any special scent. If you are clean and you don’t have any infection or other complication you don’t need to use those perfumed products. In fact, these products can cause damage instead of helping you. They only have short effects and after that you will have to deal with their side effects. In many cases you will end with some infection.

Every time you suspect that you are suffering from some infection consult your doctor. A lot of women think that they can perform self-diagnosis and buy medications unsuitable for their situation. There are different types of infections that require different treatment. Many of them share the same symptoms such as burning sensation, irritation and itching but they are not the same.

Using lubricants during the sexual intercourse is a great idea. You can use condoms with lubricants or specialized lubricants. These lubricants are good because they reduce the chances of a broken condom and they also reduce the chances of damages to the vagina during the intercourse. If you decide to use lubricants try the ones based on water or silicone.

Use these tips to improve your overall health and achieve complete sexual health.

Vaginal tablets for treatment of diseases

Vaginal tablets have proven to be a very effective tool for eliminating various fungal infections that occur in the vagina. However, it is good to know that there are different types of vaginal tablets from different manufacturers that can be used for various diseases, infections, illnesses and some of them can be used as a contraceptive too.

They work in a very simple way. Vaginal tablets or cones are placed inside the vagina and once they are dissolved, their content affects the sources of the problems that appear in women. So what exactly do these vaginal tablets contain? As we have mentioned before there are several types of vaginal tablets so we will list what some of them include – antiseptics, lactic acid, milk sugar, estriol, lactobacilli, antifungals, antibiotics and few other ingredients or a combination of these ingredients.   

These vaginal tablets are recommended by doctors in certain cases. Depending on the type of the vaginal tablets they are mostly recommended in these cases:

-          To restore the vaginal flora that was destroyed after fungal infection

-          To restore the usual vaginal flora that was violated after antibiotic use

-          For treatment of menopausal problems

-          For treatment of recurrent infections of the vagina

-          In some cases of hormonal disorders (especially in younger women)

-          Against burning and itching in the vagina

-          Against vaginal dryness

-          For pain during the sexual intercourse

-          For treatment of various vaginal infections

-          For treatment of candida (fungus)

-          For treatment of trichomoniasis

-          For prevention of sepsis

-          For achieving asepsis before any kind of gynecological interventions

As you can see the list is long and the effects of vaginal tablets can be helpful in various situations.

It is good to know that, just like many other medications, vaginal tablets have side effects that can appear in certain cases. For example, these cases include - over sensitivity of the metabolism to a certain substance and presence of ulceration. Also a lot of young women reported side effects while using vaginal tablets. These tablets can cause side effects in people that are suffering from some malignant diseases as well as people suffering from endometriosis. If any side effects occur patients are advised to consult with their doctor immediately.

These vaginal tablets work after they are dissolved so keeping them in a relatively cold space is a must. They dissolve inside the vagina on a certain temperature so if you leave them outside exposed to higher temperatures there is a high probability that they will dissolve.

Using vaginal tablets is not something that you should do on your own. They can be used only on the recommendation of a gynecologist. Women that are pregnant and nursing mothers should be especially careful when taking vaginal tablets. Some vaginal tablets are not recommended for these categories of women. Women that are using other types of medication should be careful too, because some combinations can cause serious complications and side effects. 

Clitoral Stimulating Technique - The Ultimate Orgasm Technique

We have discuss about clitoral in many of our post, it's not a secret that clitoral may help you to give her the orgasm. But there may be some questions like how do we stimulate her clitoral, is licking and fingering enough? How do we stimulate her but not bringing her pain or numb with the clitoral? And learn the technique so that you can Rock Her World.

The oral stimulation, before you start licking her clitoral, give her some foreplay like usual but avoid the clitoral and vagina part. When she starts to moan, then only go down to her clitoris and start your oral stimulation. Lick her clitoris gently and quickly, vary your direction each time and pausing each flick of your tongue. Remember the 10 and 2 o'clock position of her clitoris? Go into it when she is going to orgasm. There is another part of her clitoris can make her go wild, go beneath her clitoris. And what do you do with it? Slide it upward with soft stroke, repeat it slow and steadily. The secret is maintain it at a gentle and deliberately stroke even she wants a harder one. Each stroke should be individual, it should break contact with each stroke. When she is going to orgasm then only your tongue will lick continuously without breaking contact.

Manual stimulation. It's the finger stimulation that we normally do. There is a position that is very convenient for your finger to stimulate her clitoris continuously. First you may start this by giving her a sensual massage on her back, butt. Then slide behind her, stick to her butt with your chest and your finger can run around her sensitive part freely. Start by giving her some sexy circle, gently. Then you may try side to side or diagonal stroke. If you need some lubricants to oil up your hand, you can get it easily at your fingertip. You may penetrate her vagina with your finger to give her another big orgasm, but the main part here is not her vagina, it's her clitoris. Use your thumb to massage her clitoris while giving her some penetration. With this technique, you can give her multiple orgasm without even using your penis. You can do this all night long, right? And we will share more about all night long sex in the next post.

Read Her Sexual Body Language

We have talked about the sex partner orgasm all these time, and we should improve the sexual relationship by communicating with them, learn more, utilise your technique, skill and pose. After all these, you are still not sure whether they are faking their orgasm for now. There are some skills that can help you to read her body language and know whether she is faking her orgasm. Of course if you don't care whether she is faking it then you don't need to learn it.

The first thing that you can see easily but she can fake it easily is her breath, if she is breathing rapidly, this may be the sign that she is having her orgasm. When she is ready to orgasm, her heart rate will increase and her internal organs and muscles will demand more oxygen, so you may see her breathing rapidly. Her body movement like arms can be a signal for you as well, when she is enjoying the sex, her hand shouldn't be close to herself unless she just want to balance herself. If her hand is wide open or holding you close then it seems like she feels comfortable and may have the orgasm soon. There is another very sensitive part of her can be easily read, that is her vagina, you may feel the contraction with your penis while you penetrate her. There are some girls able to control their muscles in her vagina as well, but those girls are able to have their orgasm easily as they know what they want. You just communicate with them and they will tell you what to do in order to make them orgasm.

The Best out of you

There isn't any best solution for sexual intercourse. Different people have different preference, they have different kind of favorite part in sex. Some can have orgasm multiple time for every sexual intercourse, but some are like men, they may have an orgasm only. Then women may also act like men that they turn around and go to sleep immediately after sex, some like a small chat and hug after sex. So we would like to suggest that find out your sex partner's behavior, what's her favourite pose, does she like to make love in bed, or she prefer couch, she like to be on top or she like the missionary pose. Then you may use your strength to help you in this sexual relationship. For example, those who do not have a big penis inside their pants doesn't mean they can't give their partner an orgasm. They can just use their finger and tongue to assist them in sex. They can also use some other pose to make their women feel 'full' in the vagina, like doggie style, they can even put their finger at the woman's clitoris while penetrate. Just use your strength to your advantage and don't just feel sad at what you don't have. Don't give yourself excuses that you can't satisfy them, work it out, think, make her feel comfortable, don't make yourself to predictable and so on.