How To Make Her Your 'Love Slave'

The thought of having a submissive lover is probably at the top of every man's wish list. That's certainly the case for every single one of my friends and me.

And the interesting - and awesome - thing is that the grand majority of women want to submit. Most of them will never actually say it out loud, but they are ready and willing to submit to the man who can comfortably and competently take the lead.

But even when I had a good amount of sex experience under my belt, I still didn't know how to take the lead and dominate my sex partner.

The thought of holding her hair and pulling it back, or to tie her up and blindfold her was an extreme turn on for me. But I was simply afraid that she would not only stop me but that she would probably slap me across the face and never want to see me again.

Little did I know that literally 99% of women love having their hair pulled during sex... as long as you don't try to yank her hair out of her skull. The same thing goes for tying her up and blindfolding her.

No matter how reserved she may seem at first, there is an inner freak that is just begging to be unleashed as long as you are ready and able to handle it.

So, let's talk about that a bit...

If you want your woman to submit to you and become your personal "love slave," you have to do two things.

It may sound overly simple, but you can't let the simplicity of it fool you. You have to understand that these two steps are very powerful and can work with any woman as long as you're ready for it.

Step 1: Have a genuine sexual desire to satisfy her, and then do it.

I've said this before, I'll say it again, and probably again in the future: If you take the time and effort to make sure that she has an orgasm before you, she would be willing to do whatever you want her to.

Do you want to tie her up? Do you want to pull her hair? Spank her? Choke her?

The chances are that you can do all of those things as long as you ensure that she has her orgasm first. (And I'm talking about a real, hair-raising, toe-curling, and intense orgasm)

There is nothing more powerful than a sexually satisfied woman.

Step 2: "Tread Softly" and check for feedback

If you've never slept with your partner before, you probably don't want to bring out the whips and the chains just yet. If she's letting you spank her, it probably doesn't mean that she wants you to stick your finger in her butt.

Whatever you want to try, you have to "test" the idea first by doing a very light version of the idea, and then check for her reaction to see if you should continue or not.

For example, if you want to stick a vibrator in her butt ultimately, you have first to rub your finger across her anus while you're having sex to see how she reacts to it. If she squirms and says, "No!" then you know that you probably shouldn't continue.

But if she doesn't shut you down right away, then you can continue to stroke it. Then slowly and gently begin to slide your finger in only up to the first knuckle. Then you stop here and continue your vaginal stroke.

If she is enjoying it, you'll either hear her moan, or you'll feel lubrication coming from her anus. This can be a sign that you can push your finger deeper. But if you want to be even more careful, you can just ask her how she likes it.

This can apply to anything pulling her hair, tying her up, using toys, etc.

Just remember consensual sex is good sex.

How to turn a guy on

Many ladies fail at the dating game. This might be due to several reasons. Some are too shy to accost a guy at a club, for example, others are too proud and give off an air of superiority, which instantly turns of most guys. Improve your sexual life may lead to better sexual health for both of you and your sex partner. There are women who hold themselves way more intelligent than a man, and as such, come off as all-knowing and geeky, which also most guys don`t like.

Guys, like ladies, are complicated beings and have their need and sexual desires, just like ladies do. Although it might appear easy to hook up with a dude at the local bar, who drank all night and does not know his name anymore, turning on a sober and normal man, is quite complicated. Here are some fundamental tips and skills that every woman should understand if they simply want to turn on their man.

1) Put on An Erotic Apparel

The first thing men see's about a woman is the way she dresses. Nowadays, the more skin a woman shows, the better. Mini skirts and sexy stockings with high heels will make any man swoon over you. Also, skin-tight dresses with just enough cleavage to show off your assets is also the way to go. A woman should, without uncertainty, accentuate her natural curves, mostly around her hips and back, because that part is what most men will check out first when seeing a lady.

2) Walk Sexy

This aspect is pretty easy for most women, but there are some who have to learn it from scratch. Walking like a man will not turn on any guy who sees you. When she wears high heels, the natural swaying of the hips when she walks should come by heart, but every woman should master how to walk sexy, even if she is wearing Converse footwear. There exist few things as charming, as seeing a sexy lady walking the right, sexy way, just winking at her assets, with every step she makes. It is just mesmerizing, and will inevitably turn all guys on.

3) Smell Good

Smell is a very significant part in turning on both sexes. A sweaty, stinking mechanic or construction worker, will probably be as prosperous in hooking up with a woman, as a swine would be. And that is true for ladies as well. Always smell pleasant when dating, or even when meeting your husband or boyfriend. A woman smelling of sweet, flowery fragrance is incredibly sexy for a man. Most of the question of how to turn a man on can be answered by simply smelling good. Always use fragrance when going on a date, or even at home. Love goes through the nostrils as well.

4) Be Soft

Every woman should be as soft as silk. Use lotions, shower gels which naturally make your skin soft and humid. And most importantly, always shave. Nothing is as offensive for a man, then a hairy woman. That was sexy 2,000 years ago, but not in the 21st century. On the other hand, there is nothing as sexy for a man, as silky soft, creamy skin, wherever he might touch you.

5) The Way You Present Yourself

Every woman should show off her femininity to a man. But also, not be needy and extremely possessive. The perfect combination is between a damsel in distress and a woman that can hold her ground, without becoming domineering. Men want to protect their women, and it is an old instinct that all man has. If you let him protect you, it will turn him on, because he will feel like a star. But also, if you make him understand that you are not just a pushover, that is very hot for a guy as well. It is all about balancing these two personalities.

6) Playing The Game 

This last part is essential. Always play the game with a guy. Tease him, feel him just at the right spots, and then back off. Leave him with something to look forward to for the night. Make funny jokes about him, and admit his games as well, without taking them personally. Cuddle and kiss him ever so slightly, but never give him all. Men were hunters in ancient times, and that remains true to this day. They need a challenge and something to hunt, so be the prey. It is a definite turn on for most men, to have to go out of their way to get a woman. These stimulation will boost sexual desire and may be more powerful than any sex pill you can find.

How to prevent premature ejaculation

Despite the fact that most men really brag about their sexual expertise – many of them hide the fact that they have been suffering from premature ejaculation. Now, this isn’t a condition that can be pinpointed with certitude. Most health professionals agree that an ejaculation can be considered as premature is the person ejaculates within one minute of the beginning of the sexual intercourse.

This is not a devastating sexual disease that may ruin your life. But it may ruin your enjoyment of your sex life – not to mention the enjoyment of your partner. It can make you insecure and doubtful of your sexual prowess. So, are there some ways in which you can prolong your time in the sack without ejaculating prematurely?

Well, the truth is that there isn’t any hard science that supports the notion that you will be able to extend your ejaculation time. But still, many men report that they have had success with the use of certain methods.

The first method that we recommend you use is the Kegel exercise. This exercise works the pubococcygeus muscle that’s to be found along the pelvic floor. You do it by squeezing it as hard as you can and then relaxing it. You do this several times per day. It will enable you to have a much bigger degree of control over your ejaculations. Try it out and see if it works for you.

Edging is another thing that you could do. You do this when masturbating. All you need to do is to get aroused to the furthermost degree before reaching a climax. Then stop masturbating and clear your head for a while. Then continue to masturbate and try to reach the next climax – but again stop before you reach it. If you do this over and over again you will be able to train yourself to experience the climax much later than you usually did.

If you’re having sex and you sense that you’re near to your climax, then you may pull out your penis and squeeze its head tight. This will diminish your need for finishing and you will be able to get back to business. Many men report that this is a great tactic that they have used during intercourse with a high degree of success when it comes to prevent premature ejaculation of any kind.

That being said, practice is one of the most powerful ways in which you can prolong your premature ejaculation. It’s normal to feel very excited during the first few sexual sessions with a new sex partner. But after a while, you will get into a routine and you won’t have the sex drives to burst out so easily.

Either way, we hope that some of these exercises and moves will help you out in controlling your premature ejaculation. We hope that your sexual life will improve dramatically as a result and that your partner will be able to enjoy your sexual endurance a lot more than ever before.

How to discover Your man G-Spot and give Him the Best Sex

Everyone hаѕ hеаrd аbоut thе fеmаlе G-ѕроt аnd like most реорlе you рrоbаblу hаvе dоnе a соnѕidеrаblе аmоunt оf research оn thiѕ ѕресiаl little ѕроt thаt саn make a woman explode in есѕtаѕу whеn ѕtimulаtеd. Well men hаvе a G-spot of their оwn, аnd it is muсh easier tо find than оn a wоmаn. The male G-spot is асtuаllу thе mаlе рrоѕtаtе. Nоw before ѕhutting off this аrtiсlе рlеаѕе continue rеаding with an ореn mind. Thе ѕtimulаtiоn оf thе male G-ѕроt can lеаd уоu to оnе оf уоur bеѕt оrgаѕmѕ that you hаvе еvеr hаd. Sо please rеаd on. 

Lеt'ѕ Discuss thе Male G-Sроt  

Thе mаlе G-ѕроt iѕ the рrоѕtаtе gland whiсh iѕ about thе ѕizе оf a сhеѕtnut. This ѕроt iѕ lосаtеd near thе rооt of thе реniѕ and juѕt bеlоw thе bladder. Whеn we ѕау thе root of thе реniѕ wе аrе rеfеrring tо thе аrеа whеrе thе penis ѕtаrtѕ. The рrоѕtаtе glаnd is what рrоduсеѕ the ejaculatory fluid during mаlе еjасulаtiоn аlѕо thе рrе-сum соmеѕ from thiѕ area аlѕо. By ѕtimulаting thiѕ area it саn produce еxtrеmеlу great еjасulаtiоnѕ for the mаn, he can stay hard all night. Mеn have rероrtеd thаt thеу hаd grеаt оrgаѕmѕ in thе раѕt but when thеу оr their ѕеx partner fоund thiѕ hiddеn little jеwеl саllеd the man's wоndеr button in the prostate thеir orgasms went thrоugh thе rооf. 

To find your G-ѕроt is nоt аѕ hard as it ѕоundѕ, but it does take a little раtiеnсе and ѕоmе рrасtiсе. But trust me it is nоthing likе trуing to locate thе fеmаlе G-spot. Firѕt whаt уоu will wаnt tо dо is lubriсаtе uр уоur indеx finger аnd also thе ореning оf уоur аnuѕ passage. Don't wоrrу аbоut finding fесеѕ whilе еxрlоring thiѕ аrеа оf thе rесtum. Thе best thing iѕ tо mаkе sure that you are ѕtimulаtеd before ѕtаrting thiѕ. Bу being turnеd оn it ѕwеllѕ the prostate аnd mаkеѕ it еаѕiеr to find. Sо if уоu are doing thiѕ with a раrtnеr make sure you hаvе ѕоmе ѕеxuаl fоrерlау аnd gеt аll excited аnd either уоu оr уоur раrtnеr gо оn in the rectum about twо inсhеѕ аnd fееl аrоund fоr a bumр about the ѕizе оf a сhеѕtnut or wаlnut. Trust mе you will know whеn уоu find it. Likе I ѕаid it iѕ rеаllу muсh easier tо find then thе female G-ѕроt. There аrе milliоnѕ оf littlе nerves that аrе associated with thiѕ ѕроt аnd it is easily stimulated. This sexual stimulаtiоn iѕ whаt mаkеѕ уоur оrgаѕmѕ so much grеаtеr.

 

Whilе stimulating thе spot ѕtаrt stroking the penis tо bring him to аn ultimаtе climax. Sоmе men will have an оrgаѕm just frоm ѕtimulаting the spot. Anоthеr wоndеrful thing to try iѕ tо inѕеrt a vibrаtоr ѕеx tоу or a butt рlug in the anal ореning. While hаving ѕеx with уоur partner have thе vibrator going and stimulating the mаlе G-ѕроt whiсh will bring a greater оrgаѕm to the mаn. Male аnаl ѕеx tоуѕ аrе a wоndеrful еxреriеnсе if you hаvе nоt triеd one yet. Mаnу ѕеx toys аrе dеѕignеd fоr the prostate аnd аrе curved for prostate ѕtimulаtiоn.

 

Here are some tips to help you.

First go intо thiѕ with an ореn mind. Thiѕ iѕ рrоbаblу a virgin area tо уоu ѕо approach it slowly аnd еxресt tо have fun аnd much еnjоуmеnt.

Sесоnd iѕ tо tаkе уоur timе аnd not rush. Your аnаl ореning iѕ probably a virgin ѕо tаkе thingѕ ѕlоw аnd mаkе ѕurе thаt уоu аrе соmfоrtаblе. 

And third, brеаthе dеерlу whilе уоu рlау аnd stay rеlаxеd. Don't ruѕh аnd if уоu аrе fееling раin bасk оff and tаkе a brеаk. The more оftеn уоu hаvе anal ѕеx the mоrе it will bесоmе nаturаl and more рlеаѕing. Sо рrасtiсе, practice аnd mоrе рrасtiсе. Rеmеmbеr sex iѕ fun and еnjоуаblе ѕо gо for it аnd enjoy it. You will bе glad уоu did. 

How to have sex with a new partner?

You have finally met someone who makes you feel happy and maybe you have already fallen in love. Your mutual attraction can be felt from miles and the sexual tension is rising. It is only a matter of time when you and your new partner will have your first sex. All these things sound nice but before you make your next move it is always a good idea to take few things into consideration.

First of all, you need to be very careful. It is a well known fact that when a relationship is fresh you have the feeling that your partner is ideal but you should know better than that. Having sex with someone that you don’t really know can be extremely dangerous. Many sexually transmitted diseases like genital herpes, syphilis, Chlamydia and HIV cannot be spotted because they don’t have any distinctive external symptoms. This is why it is really hard to tell if someone is infected with some of these diseases or not. Feel free to ask him when the last time he had a test for these diseases was. Even if he had a long serious relationship before you that doesn’t mean that his or her partner was faithful. If you want to be sure that he or she is completely healthy you should both take a test.

Once you know that you are both perfectly healthy you will certainly feel more relaxed and forget about the stress. Don’t be afraid about your sexual performance and don’t think about failures. Remember that the first sex is usually intended to get familiar with your partner and explore each other’s bodies. You can’t expect full sexual play so don’t push to hard in order to impress your partner.

Soft erection treatment

What was driving your ex partner crazy in bed doesn’t mean that it will work with your new partner too. But don’t worry about that. Exploring and researching of new reactions to certain moves and things is very interesting, fun and it will surely improve your sex life. If you start feeling that you are under a lot of pressure it is best to postpone your first sex. There is a lot of time ahead when you can freely explore your bodies. It is better to make sure that both of you are relaxed and ready for your first sexual experience.

In the past men and women usually practiced the so-called missionary sex position but those days are long gone. Today couples practice dozens of different sex positions and on top of that thing like using sex toys or practicing anal and oral sex are nothing unusual.

If you are used to more simple sex, don’t be afraid of using sex toys that your partner may have in the drawer. There is a big chance that the sex toy was brought on purpose and that she or he was planning to use during the sexual intercourse with you. Don’t refuse to have anal sex, but if your partner feels uncomfortable you should first talk about that.  

Looking for a night with no string attached

When you are looking for a one night stand, and you would want to know that the other party have the same feel about it or not, how? Is the girl looking a one night stand, a sex partner or she treats you as a long term relationship partner? There are actually a lot of different way to find out, of course ask her directly is the most straight forward way to find out. Check for these sign and it may help you to find out.

She always looks for you during day time, this indicate that she is most likely to treat you as a long-term relationship partner and hopes to be with you. On the other hand if she is expecting to have sex with you, she is most likely to date you at night as this is the party time and may lead to her bedroom or hotel after party. Alcohol gives you the feel of more relax, and more likely end up with sex as both of you are relax and not so defensive.

Groupon. This can be a sign as well? Yes. When they always plan it in advance and make arrangement, reservation with you that means they are more potential in long term relationship. They are not seeing you as their last resort but reserve their time for you. If she calls you last minute to meet up and sure they just looking for someone to fill up their free time, it may not be something serious. Some of the girls may look for sex last minute and it happen to be with you, sure this is the kind of candidate for sex partner.

Facebook may give you a hint, you may know about it if they wrote something about you. They may not wrote it so straight forward but this, you have to figure it out. A lady who is serious in relationship and still they update their status that they are being with you, they are expecting a long term relationship from you. If the girl you hand out with is a party girl, their status update may just a show off of their life, a hang out with a handsome guy like you.

There are just some of the sign that can help you to find out, you still need to look at the whole picture to find out.

The Best out of you

There isn't any best solution for sexual intercourse. Different people have different preference, they have different kind of favorite part in sex. Some can have orgasm multiple time for every sexual intercourse, but some are like men, they may have an orgasm only. Then women may also act like men that they turn around and go to sleep immediately after sex, some like a small chat and hug after sex. So we would like to suggest that find out your sex partner's behavior, what's her favourite pose, does she like to make love in bed, or she prefer couch, she like to be on top or she like the missionary pose. Then you may use your strength to help you in this sexual relationship. For example, those who do not have a big penis inside their pants doesn't mean they can't give their partner an orgasm. They can just use their finger and tongue to assist them in sex. They can also use some other pose to make their women feel 'full' in the vagina, like doggie style, they can even put their finger at the woman's clitoris while penetrate. Just use your strength to your advantage and don't just feel sad at what you don't have. Don't give yourself excuses that you can't satisfy them, work it out, think, make her feel comfortable, don't make yourself to predictable and so on.

Vacation Sex

Vacation sex, like what you have see in the title, it's always nice to have sex during holiday. And what we want to share here is plan a trip, go somewhere that is new to you. The environment will give you new experience, when you go for vacation, you will feel so relax and you will do something that is different at home. The sex will be great. I once try this villa in Bali, the villa comes with bedroom, living room, open air bathroom and swimming pool. Normally people book this for honeymoon, and I come here just to try it out. The experience is great, we jump into the pool by the time we reach, the place is just amazing. We started to kiss each other, and in no time we are naked. We just have sex in our own private pool, well, it's not that comfortable to have sex in the pool, but the feel of having sex under the sky is great. We make love few times that day and the feel is great. You don't have to fly all the way to Bali to experience this, we just want to share that making love in somewhere that is strange to you may give you and your sex partner more excitement in life. You may go somewhere near to spend your weekend, 2 days 1 night is more that enough to have a great sex. It won't cost you much and give you the new sex excitement.

Phone and Sex

Just read about an article that talk about relationship of phone and sex. How does a phone affect your sex life? The article here does ignore a lot of other phone users but focus on the latest new phone like Iphone, Blackberry and Android phone. There is actually a statistic that makes you want to buy an Iphone. I'm not a big fan of Iphone, and I'm not even a user of Iphone, I just quote it from CBS News article that relate the phone and sex buddy.

It mentions that if you happen to be a male Android phone user, you will have an average of 6 sex buddies. If you are a female Android phone user, it will be slightly higher, 6.1 sex partners. Now we talk about Blackberry users, for the male, you will have 8.1 sex partners, for the female, it's higher again, it's 8.8 sex buddies. Who's the winner? Yes, it's IPhone, for men, the average is 10 sex buddies, and for girls it's 12.3 sex partners. I think IPhone have more applications and games that can help each other to contact more frequent and help them to communicate. Oh, the poll for this research is 30 years old.

For me, it's just a normal article, the first feeling when I read this is how come girls have more sex buddies than guy. But I can understand that they have more advantage than guy. Sad news for us, guys.

Healthy mindset for sex

We have talk about the quality of your mindset, it's the mental health. Your mind controls all your body, so if you don't get the devil out from your mind, you won't be able to do it right. What we are talking here is related to sex? Yes, it's related to sex! How? There are lots of different pressure in our life, family, finance, relationship, work and the current issue, yes, radioactive! So you get the idea about what do people need to worry everyday. We have to have a very healthy and strong mind to keep us alive and continue our life. For example, if you have all these thing in your mind, the problem and trouble then you will think about it all day long, you take a viagra, cialis or levitra now, even if your penis is hard like a rock, but your mood is not there. Your sex partner doesn't feel you, you're not into it, thus it gives a very bad feedback to your sex partner unless all your sex partner want is a hard penis. Your sex partner will need your full participation and your reaction towards her needs. Get yourself some time to clear your mind, have a drink and relax, make your mind free of problems at the moment and focus on what you are doing now. Keep on thinking about the problems will only distract you and won't be able to settle it. So focus, set your target and go ahead.