Sex & you

Sex & you
Showing posts with label erogenous zones. Show all posts
Showing posts with label erogenous zones. Show all posts

Friday, August 3, 2018

Making That Vacation Sex Work


So you’ve worked round the clock trying to make ends meet to provide for your family and also go on that vacation you deserve. You’ve also noticed how difficult it is to keep a sexual routine with your partner because of how busy you can get. She hardly complains, because you guys have had discussions on vacation, and have made plans. It’s been a while you’ve been on vacation; it’s also been a while you’ve had a romantic getaway with your partner and you are wondering how to rekindle the lust between both of you while on vacation. Here are four ways to ensure you get enough of each other on that trip:

Location matters
What location have you picked for your vacation? Somewhere close to home or another country? How romantic is the setting of the location? Is it where people come for their honeymoon, or where people visit for sightseeing? If you are planning a vacation to spend romantic time with your partner, ensure that you pick the right location that will set things up. Remember this is not a family vacation where you have to consider the needs of your children. It’s something involving just both of you. Choose a location that will set you in the mood for sex, somewhere not too cold or hot, but cool weather that will make you guys want to cling on to each other for the rest of the trip. Ensure they don’t allow children there too.

Make a bucket list
What do you hope to achieve with your partner during this trip? Do you want to explore her body on a deeper level? Get to know her g-spot or erogenous zones? Try out crazy sex positions? 50 shades of gray motivated? Sex on the beach? Want sex full of toys? You can write out different things you wish to try out and get her to write hers too. Writing a bucket list and sharing with each other will build the momentum and excitement that will make you do a countdown to the big day.

What’s in the luggage?
Surely not some old undies and worn out shorts. It’s been a while you’ve had enough time to yourself, so why bring up the past. Please keep out the oldies and go shopping for some new sexy Victoria secret and puma briefs. Your babe can also add some wigs for different character roles depending on the level of sexual communication you both have. Sex toys, lubricants, contraceptives, massage oils, chocolate thongs, undies, etc. should be in that bag unless you plan on getting them when you arrive at your destination.

Build momentum
So you’ve finally gotten to your destination. Your room looks inviting, red rose petals at strategic places. Do you think it’s right to jump into sex right away? While there is nothing wrong with this, you can be sure your first vacation sex will be boring. Do something that will increase sex drive for each other, a warm bath, exercise, massage, skydiving, etc. You do not need to rush things; you are on vacation.

Saturday, May 6, 2017

How to Make a Woman Orgasm Fast

There are two different main types of a female orgasm. One is achieved via direct sexual stimulation of her clitoris while the other is by stimulating the G-spot which is embedded inside her vagina. However, an even greater orgasm can be achieved with these.

Stimulate Her G-Spot with Your Penis
First of all, you need to set the pace, when you are inside of her. Do not just thrust her rapidly in any direction. It can be a painful experience for her. Instead, Start of slowly when you just begin entering her. Elevate her bottom with a pillow so that when you thrust, your penis can stimulate her G-spot. Your thrusting should not be too forceful but gentle as you rock back and forth, using your knees as support.

Stamina
It is all about how long you can have sex. Having the stamina to last a while will allow the girl to orgasm extremely fast. If you can have intercourse fast and hard, you will get your girl to climax quickly if you don't stop. That is what men always do because they cannot handle the pleasure. If you control your mind, then you will be able to last and be able to have sex fast and hard with no problem. You will be amazed that after a few seconds, the girl will have had one or more orgasms. It is all about stamina.

Position
Another area that you need to focus on is the position. The way your body is positioned and the way you can penetrate her will play a significant role in the whole process. It is essential to have the right position to give her sexual pleasure. Otherwise, you will not be able to give her a quick orgasm.
To get a girl to climax fast, you need to be able to have the right methods to get success. With the right position, stamina, and tools, you will be able to give a girl an orgasm fast and without any issues.

Rub Your Pubic Area on Her Clitoris
Gradually increase the intensity and the depth of penetration. Most women prefer escalation one step at a time. As most of her nerve endings are located on the clitoris, keep your pubic area close, rubbing against hers. As you rock in motion, her clitoris can also be stimulated at the same time to increase her sexual desire. Sexual satisfaction is achieved when both partners' needs are simultaneously fulfilled during sex, it gives you a harder erection as well.

Fondle Her Breasts
You can also heighten her orgasm by stimulating other parts of her erogenous zones. If she is on top of you, you can massage her breasts with your hands as you allow her to take control of your penetration. Women find this as a huge turn on.

Massage Her Bottom
Vary your caress with massaging her bottom with one hand while the other is on her breast. The more stimulation she has on her erogenous areas, the more likely she is to reach orgasm quickly.