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Showing posts with label oral sex. Show all posts
Showing posts with label oral sex. Show all posts

Wednesday, December 6, 2017

Men and Women Sexual Fantasies

Fantasy is a normal and healthy part of sex life for both men and women. According to some scientists, a rich fantasy life brings better sex.

One of the seductiveness of fantasy lovers, even if your fantasy lover is your own partner, as it often happens-is that they are right next to you, and they perfectly know what to do in order to make you feel good. One more benefit is that you may enjoy fantasy sex with someone other than your partner without consequences, as it occurs solely in your mind. Fantasy helps you to do those wild and lascivious things that you have always dreamed of.

Now let's see what women and men are thinking about.

Women fantasies
1.Fantasizing about her current partner
This is the number one sexual fantasy for the majority of women. Women fantasy about things they have done or would like to do with their partners.

2.Sex with a man who is not her partner
For women, this is usually a past lover. Some women feel guilty reliving some hot moments from the past. But it is something normal.

3.Sex with another woman
Women are more likely to have sex fantasies with another woman than men, probably because it is more acceptable. It is not necessary that she knows another woman; the most important thing is that woman knows exactly what to do in order to turn her on.

4.Something she has never tried before
These fantasies may include group sex, blindfolding, threesomes, watching others or other things. While many women are rather imaginative that concerns their fantasies, they often don't accept a sexual desire for anything kinky to a partner for fear of being judged.

5.Receiving oral sex
Oral sex is the most effective and quickest way to reach intense orgasm, that is why it is not surprising that the majority of women fantasies are related to oral sex.

Men fantasies
1.Having sex with a woman other than his partner
Often she is a past lover, a friend or even a celebrity. A lot of people desire to have sex with someone new and fantasy is a great way of enjoying this longing without being unfaithful to your partner.

2.Giving or receiving oral sex
This fantasy occupies almost the top of the list for both sexes. Giving and receiving oral sex turns on every man. Many women are aroused more by oral sex than intercourse and being in the role of the pleasure-giver and driving his woman crazy is extremely excited.

3.Sex with two or more women
Having sex with one woman is for sure good, but having sex with two or more doubles the sensations. Men fantasy how they arouse both women, giving them multiple orgasms. However according to studies many men don't want and actually couldn't cope with such sexual demands in real life.

4.Anal sex
The anus is a very erotic zone, especially for men. A lot of men would like to have anal intercourse with their women; unfortunately the majority of fair sex avoid anal sex, that is why men fantasize about it.

5.Voyeurism
Few people would not avoid watching a couple having sex if they were assured not to be caught. The reason that voyeurism is so popular fantasy among men is that sex is private and hidden. Men can see couples do it on video, but seeing it in real is another thing.


Tuesday, January 31, 2017

Deep Penetration Positions - Explosive Orgasm for Both of You

The best sex positions enable both you and your partner to achieve simultaneous orgasms. However, a lot of people don't seem to get it right. According to a recent survey by ABC News, only 30% of American women reported they "always" manage to orgasm in sex. Now ask yourself: is your woman in the same shoe as them?

Fortunately, you do not have to master the skill of a porn actor to satisfy your woman. There are easy positions that allow deep penetration and erotic stimulate high sex drives for both of you. Read out as we reveal the low down of the best deep penetration positions:
Important: Do not underestimate foreplay!

Foreplay for men is everything that happens about 3 minutes before sex.-Dr. Louann Brizendine
If you view foreplay this way, then you are into alot lot of troubles. According to experts, it takes minimum 15 minutes of arousal time before a woman can reach orgasm. Foreplay is a fundamental step to prepare her for lovemaking. It helps to release fluids from the private areas to enhance sexual pleasure and intense orgasm. If you rush sex, she will have difficulties to achieve the big "O". Besides, she may feel uncomfortable with your penetration due to lack of moisture. There's nothing worse than a painful intercourse!

In a nutshell, please do not be stingy with foreplay. There are many ways to make her reach near orgasm during foreplay, including hugging, oral sex, kissing, and sensual massage. The primary focus should be her pleasure.

Deep Penetration Positions
1. Lotus Position
In this posture, you sit on the bed with extended or crossed legs. She sits on your lap and places her hands on your shoulder. Then, she wraps her legs around your waist with moving up and down along your penis shaft.

Tip: As she is doing her job, try to squeeze your PC muscle as though you are doing Kegel exercise. It will exponentially intensify your orgasm!

2. Full Mast Position
It is the standard missionary position with a little twist. As she lies on her back, put her legs on your chest, then raise legs up to form a "L" shape in relation to her body. You knee down in front of her and penetrate from front. This position allows deep thrusting and provides high level of sensation as it makes you feel tight.

Tip: Instead of lying on the bed, have her to lie on a table where her buttock is positioned at the edge. It will allow you to penetrate deeper and leave your hands free to fondle her body, it will boost her sexual desire.

3. Cowgirl position
Cowgirl position is an incredible deep penetration position. It allows deep thrusting and erotic stimulation. In a typical cowgirl position, you lie on your back while she sits on top of you to do all the work. She is in charge of the angle and speed of stimulation which equals maximum sensation for both of you. If your woman is conscious of body image, suggest reverse cowgirl position which she faces against you.

Tip: The up-and-down movement can be pretty tiring for her. You can have her to slightly bend forward and move back and forth. It requires less effort from her and also increases chances of clitoral orgasm.

Now listen, when these tips are combined, it will send her to absolute heaven!

Monday, June 22, 2015

Techniques to Prevent Premature Ejaculation

First of all you should understand what happens to your body at the time of ejaculation. The male orgasm consists of two stages: the first stage begins in the prostate gland which surrounds the urethra and is positioned in a circle above the layout of the penis. The prostate gland shrinks and releases fluids together with seminal vesicle contents into the urethra. The second stage occurs when the pelvic muscle contract tightly around the perineum, forcing fluid out with a considerable pressure. Men should be aware that it is possible to ejaculate without having an intense orgasm and vice versa (dry orgasm); orgasm is something mental and ejaculation is something physical.

Treatment
The good news is that this problem is highly treatable, if a man is willing to ask for help by investing the time and effort required. The first step to eliminate premature ejaculation is to become more familiar with it. Be comfortable with your body, notice what feelings and sensitivities that lead to orgasm. You should learn and be able to predict when the orgasm will occur. This will prevent the surprise of having an orgasm without counting. This will help to understand what is needed to avoid reaching that point, where there is no possible return.

Breathe
Many people are not aware but proper breathing helps develop control over ejaculation and give you a harder erection. This is because by doing some deep breaths, it will help you relax and calm the sexual tension that leads to premature ejaculation. Practice deep inhalations and exhalations and relax the whole body.

Communication
Communication is another of the essential keys to be considered to lasting longer in bed. Let your partner know when you are about to ejaculate and what you can or cannot stand. This involves verbalization therefore non-verbal acts are often misinterpreted. Words such as, “Hold” or “More” are obvious choices; short, meaningful words are also acceptable.

Anxiety
Another cause of premature ejaculation is anxiety, fear or discomfort with your partner. Premature ejaculation is less likely to happen when couples know each other well and feel comfortable with each other. And, more so if both are in a relaxed state and have no problems with contraception.

Many men in the second intercourse session can last longer than in the first. So perhaps, this practice can be incorporated into your sexual ritual. If the first time is short, continue to excite your partner with some oral sex or manual stimulation, keeping the excitement alive until you are ready for a second time.

Activ Homme Cream
Cream that stop premature ejaculation which reduce the sensitivity on the penis felt by men during intercourse are an option to circumvent this problem since they allow intercourse last longer. This gel is applied to the tip of the penis just before starting intercourse. The only problem is that some men find it less stimulating sexual act as the physical sensations are diminished. And Attention: This gel can also cause allergic reactions in men, if applied more than recommended.

Condoms
Condoms also reduce the sensitivity of the stimulation during sexual intercourse. Many men feel that condoms allow them to a prolonged intercourse act because it reduces sensitivity. In addition to this advantage, condoms prevent sexually transmitted diseases and do not cause irritation in the vagina of the partner. These preservatives retardants contain benzocaine inside them, which functions as creams exiting sensitivity.

Sexual Position
The type of sexual position also determines and affects the length capacity of intercourse. The missionary position (man on top and woman underneath) is considered the best position to control ejaculation. However, all men are different but, in general, find more difficulty to control ejaculation when the partner is in a position of control. But it also depends on each one; try different positions according to what makes you feel better.

Technical Squeeze
This technique may be practiced with your partner using the hand or mouth or even alone. It will require great deal of trial and error before you will achieve the ultimate perfection. This method helps in most cases of premature ejaculation as long as both partners are willing to cooperate. Squeezing your fingers on the penis decreases the desire to climax. You should practice this method for a few weeks so you can control ejaculation.

Start your sexual activity as usual, including stimulation of the penis, until you feel almost ready to ejaculate.
Ask your partner to shake the tip of his penis (do a sort of ring with the thumb and the index finger and middle), the place where the glans (head) joins the shaft of the penis and hold this grip for about 10 to 20 seconds until the feeling of ejaculation pass.
After using the initial technique of squeezing the penis, wait about 30 seconds before trying to reach ejaculation. You will notice that when you press the penis it will become less erect; but barely get sexual stimulation again, and your penis will regain a new erection.

Start the session again and when you are about to ejaculate again, ask your partner to repeat the tightening process, pressing your penis firmly between the thumb and the other two fingers.

By practising this technique consistently, you can perfect the art of holding on to your ejaculation. And, at this point you can start intercourse with your partner without the fear of ejaculation.

Train the Pelvic Muscles
Well-developed pelvic muscles allow better control and make you aware of what goes on in the adjacent region. The lower pelvic muscles are used to stop and start the process of urination. Contract these muscles for 4 seconds and relax them for 4 seconds, repeating this ten times. You can do this anytime and anywhere.

Method for / Starts
A man usually believes that a “real man” should always give sexual pleasure to a woman. This kind of thinking is not only wrong, it is harmful. The method for / Starts focuses on redirecting the kind of thinking that leads to premature ejaculation. The method for / Starts aims to change this behavior: the man is encouraged to masturbate using the technique of stop / start to gain more control over their responses and his urge to ejaculate too fast.

Technique:
·        Masturbate alone;
·        Make time available to masturbate with dry hands;
·        Start stroking your penis almost to the point of ejaculation and then stop;
·        You should do this 3 times;
·        The fourth time is allowed to ejaculate.
Once you have achieved this measure of control, you can try masturbating with a wet hand, it will give your penis a feeling more like the inside of the vagina.

Decrease Sexual Pressure
Many men who suffer from premature ejaculation feel frustrated and often embarrassed. Talk to a doctor or sex therapist is always a good idea because it helps determine the cause of the problem, which can be physical or psychological. While experiencing some treatment options, consider removing the pressure of the sexual side of your relationship. Some doctors recommend avoiding intercourse for a while and instead resort to other physical and emotional pleasure rather than intercourse itself. Many women enjoy penetration, but also feel great pleasure in foreplay, preferring often manual stimulation or oral penetration. Making a connection in this way will help to re-establish a physical link with the sexual partner. Removing the emphasis of intercourse can remove the worry of ejaculating too soon - and can help create the foundation for a more satisfying sexual relationship.

Final Thought
Premature ejaculation can be controlled with patience, effort and knowledge. Find out: this should be the first step. Recognizing your problem is half way to overcome them. To solve the problem, mentally and physically, it is much easier when both partners are involved, with full knowledge of the situation and open to talk about it.

Saturday, January 3, 2015

Get Screened for Sexually Transmitted Diseases

Safe sex means that you care about your sexual partner’s and your health and well-being, you reduce risk of unwanted pregnancy, and you prevent infection when you have any sexual contact. It also means that you get screened for STDs whenever it is necessary.

Vaginal sex and anal sex are unsafe activities, since blood and sexual fluids can spread diseases. Hormonal contraception options and condoms can make these unsafe activities less risky. Many believe that oral sex is considered safe sex, however, it is a misbelief. If you have oral sex, you are supposed to use condoms (for fellatio) or Sheer Glyde dams or other barriers (for oral sex performed on women). Oral sex is “safer”, but unprotected oral sex can give you ugly surprises: gonorrhea, syphilis, and hepatitis B.

Sex without intercourse – mutual masturbation or online sex – is safe activity. It is safer than penetrative sex, however, you still can get herpes or human papilloma virus. You had better get vaccines against human papilloma virus and hepatitis B.

Get Screened

As a responsible person, you should reduce risk and get screened for STDs. Probably you want to act responsibly, however, you are unaware of the fact that you are infected. Some sexually transmitted diseases like gonorrhea, chlamydia or syphilis do not have obvious symptoms for several months. If you are infected with HIV(human immunodeficiency virus) and hepatitis B, you will not have any symptoms for several months, perhaps years. 

Again, sexually transmitted infections may not have any symptoms, however, they can lead to diseases all the same. Get screened, since it is the only way to tell whether you are infected or not.
You should get a medical check on a regular basis, or, at least, when you sense that something is not all right with your health. If you have unprotected sex, you might face serious consequences, and it is not only HIV that you should think of. Chlamydia, human papilloma virus, pelvic inflammatory disease and trichomoniasis are sexually transmitted diseases. Half of the American population gets a sexually transmitted disease at least once in a lifetime. Buy Maxidus

Painful urination, discharge from your genitals, itching genitals, bleeding, pain in the lower body are tell-tale signs. You should get checked if you have had sex with a risky partner: someone whom you do not trust or who has had a disease just recently.

If you have had sexually transmitted diseases during the past few years, you should get your sexual health monitored and get tested regularly. You do not want any unpleasant consequences. If you have several sex partners, you are at an increased risk.

You must not be shy when it comes to your safety. Tell your partner that you do want to reduce risk and use protection. Always be very honest with your doctor! Listen to your health care provider’s advice. Have physical exams and tests for STDs at least once a year. These tests are not painful, they are somewhat unpleasant, but they are much better than the alternatives. You might have to provide urine sample, blood sample, or a swab of the affected area. Those who belong to the baby boomer generation - they were born between 1945 and 1965 – should get screened for hepatitis C, too.

Saturday, July 19, 2014

Why having sex only to reach orgasm is wrong?

Many women cannot reach orgasm because they are focused on reaching it, which means that they look at sex only as a tool to reach orgasm.

You must learn how to reach orgasm and that’s a well known fact. Another well known fact is that many women are having big problems when it comes to achieving orgasm. This is why in this article we will discuss the reasons behind that. It is important to understand that some women need more stimulation to achieve intense orgasm while others need shorter time. Some of them can reach it only through oral pleasuring; others through penetration while some of them only when they are masturbating. The problem can occur if they are having sex only because of orgasms and wait for it. In other words, they don’t enjoy sex; they only consider it to be a warm up for their orgasm. This is why they are usually in a hurry and they are impatient, they start to ask themselves what is wrong and why they can’t reach orgasm faster.

If you have the necessary time, try to go slow. Why do you need to be in a hurry during sex? Take a long arousing foreplay, warm up to the maximum and then enjoy the main part of sex. Don’t focus on time. If the sex lasts for one hour let it be. Because as long as you look at the time you will make it last longer. If you enter the sex act without the burden of time or focus on orgasm, you will enjoy it more and it will certainly last shorter. But why would you want your sex to last shorter when you can enjoy it longer? Sex is a pure form of pleasure and this is why you need to enjoy it till the end and even more. Have sex without watching the clock and without thinking about the orgasm. Even if you feel like you are getting near it, slow down. If we are talking about certain sex position that is comfortable for you, try to stay in it and don’t change it. If you enjoy cunilingus, show your partner that you really like sexual enhancement.

A big problem in women who can’t reach orgasm is the fear of repeated failure. These women very often think that it is impossible for them to reach orgasm and they stop trying. That’s a huge mistake because that is simply not true. Don’t give up after trying something new for the first time. After all how many people can say that their first sex experience was comfortable? If you didn’t find oral sex or certain sex position satisfying why not try again? Don’t give up so easily because the reason for dissatisfaction may be located somewhere else. Is penis enlargement going to help?

In some cases women are unable to achieve orgasms because they are too embarrassed to tell their partner what turns them on. This women can help themselves if they talk openly with their partners use their hands to show their partners what makes them feel pleasant.      

Friday, June 20, 2014

Should people shave the pubic hair area?

Smooth and aesthetically good looking or natural looking…there are many reasons why we should or should not shave the pubic hair.

There are many reasons why men and women practice intimate shaving, but they are usually aesthetic in their core. Modern adult movies promote girls and guys that are clean-shaved and this is currently accepted as an ideal in our society when it comes to intimate beauty. Nowadays, if someone says that he likes a natural look in adult women; other people consider that man to be fetishist or stuck in the 70s. This trend of shaving has influenced women of all ages. Even sexually inactive teenagers do it under the influence of their surroundings. Pubic hair was once considered to be a sign of maturity and today every woman is trying to get rid of this unwanted hair.

In the recent years we are witnessing another trend that never existed – men shaving their pubic hair area. The reason behind this shaving goes deeper than their partner’s wishes. Men have few reasons why they think shaving pubic hair area is acceptable or non-acceptable. Some of them avoid shaving because they consider this type of shaving to be feminine and consider those who shave their pubic hair to be less masculine. Another category of men shave their intimate area because they think that they can visually increase the length of their manhood. This is partially true and according to some studies, this type of shaving visually increases the appearance of the penis for around 0.8 inches. Men are really different from women because they usually don’t speak about their intimate area with other men, so rarely any man can comment the appearance of some other man’s penis or testicles.

Men and women in many cases consider shaving of pubic hair to be more hygienic. This judgment is usually based on the feeling that the smell that comes from this area is more intense when the hair is not removed. But the truth is that the hygiene doesn’t depend on shaving or not shaving, it depends on showering and cleaning. In fact, the hair around our genitals has a buffer role – they don’t allow direct contact between the underwear and our skin and this is a really important thing. There are many dangerous substances, potential allergens and other unknown substances that are part of the underwear and they can cause a lot of troubles with our sensitive skin and our reproductive system in general. After all, if this pubic hair doesn’t have any function, evolution would have eliminated them a long time ago. The scent that comes from our intimate area is a mixture of pheromones and they cannot be compared with any artificial smell.

There are some objective reasons why we should shave the pubic hair, like having more enjoyable oral sex. However, this reason has another side. For example, massaging your forehead and your scalp don’t provide the same feeling. It’s the hair that makes the scalp massage more intensive and more pleasant. The same thing applies for oral sex.  

Wednesday, June 4, 2014

The Importance of Safe Sex

A lot of people think that safe sex means using a condom during the sexual intercourse, but the truth is that this term is much broader.

When someone mentions safe sex or sex by using protection, the first thing that crosses our minds is sex where we use proper protection in order to avoid getting some sexually transmitted disease such as AIDS, Syphilis, Gonorrhea etc. In most cases this protection is usually mechanical, which means primarily using male or female condom that physically prevents contact between the mucosa and bodily fluids that are secreted during the sexual intercourse and which can ultimately lead to various infections and diseases. However, safe sex can also mean sexual intercourse that we don’t to result in unwanted pregnancy. On the other hand, the protection that we use in this case does not always protect us from sexually transmitted diseases. There are of course methods that can protect us from both situations (unwanted pregnancy and STDs) like condoms for example. Coituis interruptus (pull out method) is a method where the man pulls out the penis from the vagina right before he reaches orgasm and this method is of course not effective against sexually transmitted diseases.

One of the most dangerous STD today is HIV, the main cause of AIDS. If we want to protect ourselves from this incurable virus we should always use condom during the sexual intercourse, especially when it comes to vaginal sex. HIV is “transferred” to the other partner when the mucosa gets in contact with bodily fluids although this is not the only way to get this virus. HIV can also be transmitted via blood contact too, so avoiding rough sex that can lead to small bruises and wounds is always a good idea. The risk of infection is a little bit greater when it comes to anal sex. Anal tissue is very sensitive and it is prone to ruptures and bruises making it much easier for the virus to enter the body. This situation can be avoided by using condoms. People usually use lubricants when they have anal sex so it is important to remember to avoid lubricants based on oil because they can damage the condoms. There are many lubricants based on water that are perfectly safe. STDs can be transmitted by oral sex too, although the risk is lower it is recommended to use a condom when having oral sex too especially with partners that we don’t know that well.

Sex that involves penetration (vaginal or anal) is always risky. That’s why you can choose some safer types of sex where penetration can be avoided. The risk of getting a disease in some types of sex is minimal or even nonexistent. Masturbation, for example, is the safest type of sex at least when we are talking about satisfying ourselves. The risk is still present if we are practicing mutual masturbation. You can also practice phone or cyber sex where the sex is actually virtual and there is no risk of STDs. 

Monday, May 12, 2014

Reasons for Missed and Late Menstruation

There are many reasons why your menstrual cycle might be late or even missing but there are few of them are the most probable cause for that.
First and foremost, you might be pregnant. Of course, pregnancy is possible only when a woman had sex with a man without using any type of contraception. However, in some cases even if you have used protection it is possible that it fail to protect you. Pregnancy is possible only with a sexual intercourse, during which the man ejaculates his semen in the vagina, but it can also happen in cases when the man, just before ejaculation, pulls the penis out of the vagina. Anal sex, oral sex and all other types of sex can’t lead to pregnancy. In case you had sexual intercourse that can lead result in pregnancy and the menstrual cycle is late, there are two options for you. You can buy a pregnancy test or you can calculate the so-called fertile days. 

Calculating fertile days is not really the perfect choice for protection because they are not very reliable, but they can help you establish a framework about whether you were fertile during that period or not.
Women are usually most fertile between two menstrual cycles. Sometimes this state is visible thanks to the increased vaginal discharge. This fertile period is also called a period of ovulation.

In order to determine your fertile days you can also use so-called menstrual calendars. These calendars have many purposes – from calculating fertile days to observation of your body’s behavior. These calendars can help your gynecologist a lot because we often can’t remember when the last time we had a period or some other things related with our sexual health. Ovulation can be affected by alcohol, tobacco, drugs, stress, diseases and more. That’s why we can’t rely on calculating the fertile days.   

The link between the moon and menstrual cycles has been proved many times. The moon phase of fertility might occur at any time, no matter when was your last menstruation. The moon fertility period is calculated for each woman individually, based on the time of birth.

Menstruation can be late or missing for many other reasons. One of the major causes of this is of course – stress. Menstruation can fail because your body is trying to establish a new balance. That’s why teenage girls have so many irregular menstruations. Establishing a regular menstrual cycle can last for several years and in order to achieve that women should take care about their diet – eating too much or too little can affect the menstruation. Furthermore, excessive exercising can lead to body exhaustion and this kind of routine can confuse your menstrual cycle.

Irregular menstruation and its absence might be a short-term or long-term occurrence. In cases of long-term irregularities, the best option is to visit your gynecologist. If this is a short-term problem, try to find out what kind of changes in your life happened during that period.

Menstruation can be a great indicator about what is going on in the woman’s body.

Sunday, November 24, 2013

What women consider as good sex

If you want to score A in any subject, you have to know what your lecturer wants or what the subject required you to know. If you want her to feel good in sex, first of all you need to know what she wants and what she consider as good sex. There are some guidance here in this article that may give you some idea what they really wants in sex. It's something from a sex therapist whom talk about sex every single day so I guess he knows more than each one of us.

Think sex for women as a knob, not switch like men. An easy example they provide here is men are like motor vehicle auto transmission gear, just move the gear and you are there. Women are like baking cakes, your ingredient is right, oven is ok as well but the chef's experience to bake it is crucial. Think foreplay as a 24 hours thing in and out of the bedroom before sex. Sex is all about context. Feel a bit faint? Relax, just do whatever you can and things will be fine. You will need to make her feel relax and comfortable for sex, if you are too anxious about having sex then she won't be relax as well. A deep sense of relax and lack of anxiety can bring her orgasm.

We have mention in our previous post that different women have different preference towards sex, so you have to do some trial and error like what she like to do in sex. Some may like you to give her some oral sex, but some may be too sensitive and wants only your finger. Communication is a way to find out what she wants as well. Fantasy, if you are familiar with this you may try this in your bedroom. Read the article to find out more about it. During sex, you do something you are familiar with and what you are good at, I always share with our readers here that if you have premature ejaculation you can always use your finger to satisfy her and study shows that women enjoy oral sex more than real sex.

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If you are not good at oral sex or hand job, you may try to find out whether vibrator is something acceptable for her. Vibrator is more intense than your hand and mouth, so you can give her orgasm by just holding the vibrator for her and give her some kiss. Now everyone can be the king of sex. Let her come first then you will have yours more easily and satisfying for both parties. Once you give her the orgasm, you won't regret what she will give you in return. Check the article in AskMen.

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Wednesday, October 9, 2013

Awkward moment during sex

Have you ever encounter any awkward moment and still able to settle it? You won't want to have any problem during this moment as this is one of the precious moment in life. If you are able to get over it then it may be a joke in the future that you can laugh with your partner, if you can't then it may be something sad for you. We are here to discuss some of the problems that you may have and what you should do to get over it.

How to prevent premature ejaculation

Premature ejaculation, a lot of youngster have this problem as their penis is so sensitive and they do not have any experience in sex. Well, if you have this kind of problem, visit a doctor and when you need to have sex before you cure it, use your hand and mouth. Hand job and oral sex is pretty helpful and as a matter of fact, a lot of women like oral sex more than the real sex. You may slow down the whole having sex process by spending more time at foreplay, this will help the girl orgasm more quickly. 

You just reach home and your partner is already waiting at your door, he or she is horny to want to make love with you immediately. You are out there the whole day and worried that you may smell bad, what do you do? Well, of course you go to shower, you don't want to give them a bad experience. Invite them to shower with you then you won't miss the moment of a juicy sex. 


Having too much alcohol before sex, if you can't avoid having too much alcohol then the best thing is to stop before you get too drunk to have sex. But if you can't expect the sex after too much alcohol, nothing you can do but hugging them to sleep unless you are sober enough to give them oral sex. Don't feel bad about it, take a good rest and prepare yourself for a wonderful morning sex. It's much better than doing it at night after whole day of work. Morning sex is always better, you will have stronger erection to have sex. 

Don't panic when you encounter any problem as we are not perfect, just do the best you can to overcome it. Push too much pressure on yourself will only make the situation worse.

Tuesday, September 24, 2013

Sex Life after 50

In our mind, sex always related to penis and vagina. We have articles previously discussing about using your other body parts to pleasure your partner, your hand and mouth. That is oral sex and hand job, so called. Women are more sensitive in sex and they require something other than just penetration in the vagina. Our previous articles do suggest that using your hand and mouth for foreplay, this article here from Huffingtonpost suggest that you may use them further in sex as a method to satisfy women’s sexual needs.

How to maintain a hard erection after age of 50

The article perspective is that men may suffer some sort of physical weakness or erectile dysfunction at the age of 50. They may still active in sex but they may not related to penetration. It’s another idea of having active sex life at an older age, which is quite a good idea for both parties and still able to have better sex life. Communication is a must to have such a sex life as either party may have different thought regarding it, they may think that it’s not appropriate as most of the men think that penetration is a must in sex life.


The best part about sex life without penetration is that it doesn’t pressure on men’s penis erection, both parties still able to enjoy sex. After the age of 50, there are a lot of other method that can help you to enjoy in sex, For example sex toys. The article also mentions that men have anal pleasure as well, this is quite new for me, if you happen to read this why not try it as well, wonder it will convert men into gay. Well, all these ideas here is a way to explore more in sex life and some of us are still so conservative in sex life. It’s still not too late to explore more in sex. 

Tuesday, September 28, 2010

Girl, Enjoy your sex more

For the girls out there, hey, you can enjoy your sex as much as a guy. Most of you out there, you tend to focus on the guy and after the guy ejaculate, both of you just stop. We have talked about girls you may ask for sex even after your sex partner orgasm, right? And now, why not you and your sex partner put the focus on you once in a while. Guys don't mind about that, they like to satisfy their girls, they like to know that they gave you the orgasm. It will make them happy that they can satisfy you, guys may arouse when they see the girls have orgasm, and the other way they will feel frustrated if they can't satisfy you in sex. Don't stop him from service you, don't be shy to ask as well. Lie down and relax yourself, let him kiss you all over your body, move his hand all over and show him how he can make you feel better and give you the orgasm you want.
Sometimes you can have orgasm without sex, you don't need to have the sex intercourse. As long as you can have orgasm, don't stop it.

Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Oral Sex and Mouth

Sex and mouth. Mouth is one of the most important part in sex. Well you know mouth is so sensual, lips is so sensitive, you can feel the strong passion while you kiss your love one. And kiss is normally how sex started. Kiss is the thing that can light up the fire in your stomach, once it's start, you can't stop the fire and lead to sex ultimately. Nothing in your body can do what the mouth do, when your lips walk away from her, and go to her neck, another sensual spot for sex. Your hand can't give the feeling of your lips, not to mention the nipple, she will tremble and ask for more.

Foreplay is an important part of sex as you all know it. And your lips comes in handy now, don't be lazy, work it out, lick all around her body, her g-spot, this will make her come and boost her sexual desire. This will tease her and she will be thirst for sex. Some of the research shows that, women enjoy foreplay more than sex intercourse itself, now you know the importance of foreplay.

Oral sex is also a famous kind of sex, oh ya, it's illegal in some of the states. Mouth is use for sucking the cock or to kiss the her lips down there, the vagina. Do you know that a girl can have intense orgasm by just using your tongue to lick her pussy? Before you start to have sex with her, you can make her orgasm by just using your tongue. So you can give her the second or third orgasm with your penis. You may give her few orgasm in just a session, I'm sure that your partner will long for you so much. Foreplay is not only a good way to help you lasting longer in bed, it will improve the quality of your sex life as well. Don't think that sex is all about your penis, there are more of it.