Saturday, January 17, 2015
The secrets of male satisfaction
Let’s be honest – modern men are a little bit insecure and confused especially when it comes to bedroom activities. Sexual life of men has many enemies and some of them include – lack of libido, sexual desire, erectile dysfunctions, fear that they will not meet the expectations from their partner etc. The causes are different for each man, but one is more apparent than the rest. It looks like women care less what their partners want in bed, while men do not dare to publicly expose their desires.
In order to get out of this dead end, women need to take a step back and consider what their partners naturally like and don’t dare to ask, what stimulates their desire and what they would like to do. All of this could be possible if women broke their cultural heritage that teaches them that they want an active and powerful, yet careful and gentle man. Many sexologists suggest that modern men are carrying a heavy burden – they must always be ready and prepared. But, there is a solution which comes in the form of love and emotions. Rediscovering these feelings is the right way to start. If a man is able to do that he ceases to be insecure, passive and frightened. They recognize their own instincts and faithfully follow these instincts without fear of being characterized as crude and vulgar. So, the solution lies in understanding, knowledge of the male pleasure mechanism.
Many studies and surveys have confirmed that the taste of men has not changed. It is a well known fact that the stronger erection is still falling on erotic images. This means that the look is the first stimulation involved in male pleasure and satisfaction. Watching their partner taking her clothes off and her naked body is an exciting foreplay for many men. So, indulge yourself on his look with the lights on, highlight your sex appeal in beautiful underwear and his sexual desire will be awakened. Another thing that most men really like is quick sex. So, what to do if he proposes quick and even a bit wild sex? Simply, let them do it and you will understand that at that moment that is his strongest desire. If you please him he will look at sex like fun activity and he will be really happy. It doesn’t make any sense to strongly condemn his desire, it is better to accept his request as a game and as an integral part of life.
Men love to be touched and massaged too. In this way they feel like they are in the center of your attention. The tenderness that you provide in the bed creates great comfort and satisfaction even when he doesn’t admit or give back. According to Oriental knowledge, sexual energy points are located on the ribs in the middle of the chest. By lightly pressuring these points you will be able to perform a stimulating massage. Another hot spot is located on the soles of the feet. The feet are sensitive erogenous zone although very often people don’t pay enough attention to this area.
Keep in mind that men don’t have much understanding and will for creativity, unless it is their proposal. Over some period of time men relax and gain confidence and this is the moment when you can take the imitative