Here are some things
you should consider before sex:
Although some think
they are old enough, it may not be the best time for sex. There are no rules
when exactly should happen to you when you should have sex for the first time.
Readiness for it occurs at different times in each person. Fail to do so may affect your future sex life and cause you lack of sex drive.
It is your decision
You can always choose
when you want to have sex and with whom. Just because you've done it before,
with one person does not mean that you have to do it again. Is this just to satisfy your partner and you even need to find something to stimulate yourself to boost testosterone level?
When and with whom to
do it is one of the important decisions in your life. You're the only one who
can decide. Whether you lose your virginity or will have sex again, remember
the following tips:
Talk about sex
Better embarrassed to
talk about sex than embarrassing sex before you are ready. There are a lot of
things you should consider.
• Are you both ready
for sex?
• Will you make sex
for the right reasons, not because you are under pressure?
Sex is not the only
aspect of the relationship, and there are other ways to enjoy each other.
Discuss what you want and what you want to do. You can do other things and they
like - as conversations, meeting with friends and family, concert, theater,
sports, walks and listening to music.
10 questions to yourself
You should be
confident about how we will react if it comes to sex and where will actually
proceed. Ask yourself when you feel comfortable. This exact time is it right
spot, the right person? Do you really believe that man and mutual have your
feelings?
• Do you feel better?
• Do you love your
partner?
• Does he loves you
too?
• Did you talk about
using condoms and how the conversation went?
• Are you prepared
contraceptives?
• Can you say
"no" at any time if you change your mind both be OK with that?
If you answer
"yes" to all questions, then maybe the time is right. But if you
answer "yes" to these questions, it does not hurry:
• Do you feel under
pressure from a partner or friends?
• Why do you want to
do sex to impress their friends or because you really want?
• Are you afraid to
lose a close working relationship if you do not have sex with him?
Having a relationship
does not necessarily mean having sex. Even if you've done it once or twice to
be sure whether you really want to proceed.
