The truth is that modern women and men have
a lot of things to take care of during the day. This means that relaxing and
focusing on enjoyment is becoming more and more difficult. This is why many
people don’t have sexual desire like the people in the past. On top of that,
many of them are taking steps that bring additional negative effects to their
sexual desire. By learning more about the things that have a negative impact on
our sexual desire, we will be able to bring that flare in bed and lasting longer in bed again.
Partner
issues
It turns out that any unsolved issues
between the partners can kill the sexual desire in many people. When it comes
to women, closeness is the first thing they need in order to feel sexual
desire. Of course, fights, arguments, lack of proper communication and trust
problems can ruin the intimacy and sexual desire no matter if you are a man or
a woman.
Stress
Stress is a natural occurrence. In fact,
there are many things that people can actually do better when they are stressed
and under pressure. However, if you feel stressed during sexual intercourse,
you can’t expect to enjoy it. Stress in our everyday life, at home and at work
is not something unusual. However, this is something that we need to manage in
a proper way on a regular basis. There are many sexual technique that can help you
and you can choose to go through on your own or ask your partner or someone
else for help. De-stressing is necessary for those who want to feel the same
sexual desire they had when they were young.
Drinking
issues
While it is true that alcohol can help you
relax and increase sexual desires, it is also true that drinking too much liquor
can eliminate sexual desire. If you are completely wasted, you won’t look sexy in
the eyes of your partner either. Needless to say, you won’t be so excited and
you won’t feel good. Alcohol is not your friend when it comes to sexual desires.
A
good night’s sleep
In case your sexual desire is low, you
might have sleeping problems. Do you go to bed after midnight and you wake up
early in the morning? Is it difficult for you to fall asleep? If there is
anything that affects your good night’s sleep in a negative way, you should
expect problems in your sex life too.
Drugs
There are some pharmaceutical drugs that
affect sexual desires. They can make you lose interest in sex. Some of these
drugs include hypotension drugs, antidepressants, and antihistamines. Talk to
your doctor and see whether you can change these drugs with something else.
Obesity
Being obese can definitely ruin your sex life and kill your sexual desire. It is simply impossible to provide your best sexual performance in bed when you are obese. That’s why you should start eating
healthy right away. You should also start losing weight.
