A Few Things that Affect your Sexual Desires in a Negative Way

The truth is that modern women and men have a lot of things to take care of during the day. This means that relaxing and focusing on enjoyment is becoming more and more difficult. This is why many people don’t have sexual desire like the people in the past. On top of that, many of them are taking steps that bring additional negative effects to their sexual desire. By learning more about the things that have a negative impact on our sexual desire, we will be able to bring that flare in bed and lasting longer in bed again.

Partner issues

It turns out that any unsolved issues between the partners can kill the sexual desire in many people. When it comes to women, closeness is the first thing they need in order to feel sexual desire. Of course, fights, arguments, lack of proper communication and trust problems can ruin the intimacy and sexual desire no matter if you are a man or a woman.

Stress

Stress is a natural occurrence. In fact, there are many things that people can actually do better when they are stressed and under pressure. However, if you feel stressed during sexual intercourse, you can’t expect to enjoy it. Stress in our everyday life, at home and at work is not something unusual. However, this is something that we need to manage in a proper way on a regular basis. There are many sexual technique that can help you and you can choose to go through on your own or ask your partner or someone else for help. De-stressing is necessary for those who want to feel the same sexual desire they had when they were young.

Drinking issues

While it is true that alcohol can help you relax and increase sexual desires, it is also true that drinking too much liquor can eliminate sexual desire. If you are completely wasted, you won’t look sexy in the eyes of your partner either. Needless to say, you won’t be so excited and you won’t feel good. Alcohol is not your friend when it comes to sexual desires.

A good night’s sleep

In case your sexual desire is low, you might have sleeping problems. Do you go to bed after midnight and you wake up early in the morning? Is it difficult for you to fall asleep? If there is anything that affects your good night’s sleep in a negative way, you should expect problems in your sex life too.

Drugs

There are some pharmaceutical drugs that affect sexual desires. They can make you lose interest in sex. Some of these drugs include hypotension drugs, antidepressants, and antihistamines. Talk to your doctor and see whether you can change these drugs with something else.

Obesity

Being obese can definitely ruin your sex life and kill your sexual desire. It is simply impossible to provide your best sexual performance in bed when you are obese. That’s why you should start eating healthy right away. You should also start losing weight.

Vulvodynia Sexual Problems

Vulvodynia is a sexual problem of women, it is pain and some burning sensation at the outside part of female genitals and the entrance of the vagina. It is an elusive disease, it is hard to diagnose. Gynecologists can set a diagnosis by ruling out any other health problem of the genitals. When doctors cannot find any reason behind burning, irritating pain in your genitals, you can assume that you have vulvodynia.

Awareness Is Important

It is a common sexual health issue. According to the National Institutes of Health’s Office of Research on Women’s Health, a study conducted in 2006 suggests that about one in five women have the symptoms of vulvodynia. However, many health care providers do not know this disease. According to a 2003 study from the Harvard Medical School, over 3,000 women have visited at least three doctors with their symptoms, and 40 percent of them were not diagnosed with this condition. As a result, in 2007, The National Institutes of Health has started a campaign that should raise awareness of this problem.

Irwin Goldstein, MD, the director of San Diego Sexual Medicine, the editor in chief of The Journal of Sexual Medicine, says that vulvodynia is responsible for the pain that premenopausal women experience during sexual intercourse.

Symptoms

Vulvodynia has different subtypes and subtypes have different symptoms. Some patients experience a painful sensation only when they touch their genitals or when a penis (or a tampon) enters them. Other patients live with a chronic pain. They feel pain from wearing pants. In other cases, pain is intermittent. Some patients have felt pain from the first time a penis or a tampon penetrated her. Others developed the condition at a later stage in their lives.

The reasons behind the condition are different. Some patients have a nerve overgrowth at their genitals. Others may develop allergies that cause their symptoms. Infections like candidiasis, herpes, or human papilloma virus,  also may lead to vulvodynia. Probably the patients live with an autoimmune disorder, similar to lupus or eczema. Pelvic floor dysfunction might be another reason.

According to doctors, vulvodynia is not a psychological condition, even if its symptoms seem intangible. Health care professionals say that it is often treatable, even if full recovery is rare.

Scientists have not found the exact cause of this condition, they say it has multiple factors: genetics, immune diseases, probably it has something to do with the wrong diet habits.

Treatment

Treatment includes healthy diet options, medicines, in severe cases, surgery.

What makes a really good sex?

The concept of good sex is a topic that is widely exploited by both media and people in their everyday conversations. There are entire sections in the libraries where you can find books about “How to achieve intense orgasm”, “How to realize your sexual potential” and other similar titles.

Most of us, influenced by romantic movies, TV shows and romance novels, are driven by the idea that the automatic arousal in response to the opposite sex and the famous butterflies in the belly are necessary prerequisite for good sex. But, what are actually these butterflies?

The butterflies are nothing else but a more beautiful name for a completely natural nervousness ahead of sexual intercourse. The first time you make love with someone, it is quite logical to enter this new experience with a certain sense of fear and unease. Just as our complete personality is a target of evaluation by the potential partner on our first date, when it comes to sexual relationship our body is the object of evaluation of the new partner before the first sexual intercourse. Therefore, it is very natural that on the eve of sexual intercourse we feel uncomfortable to some extent. However, only moderate discomfort is not the same as expressed feelings of fear and anxiety related to our own sexual competence.

Although most people love to talk and brag about their innovative sexual techniques and the way they can be applied, there is only a small number of people who will share their experience (which is actually natural) in which they felt unpleasant and uncomfortable during the first sexual intercourse with their new partner.

At the present time, which is characterized by a clear race for the confirmation of our own abilities, sex has become one of the instruments that are used as a tool to prove something. That’s why it is not surprising that a large number of people engage in sex as in one of the many activities that prove their worth. The prices we pay for this way of looking at sexuality are fears related to our sexual competence. Having sex with an idea that we must show off, usually leads to inability to maintain a hard erection in men and inability to reach orgasm in women. In this way, instead of practicing sex a way to relax, enjoy and achieve closeness, sex becomes a cause for concern in an increasing number of people around the world. Anxiety and fear are the main obstacles to achieving good sex and it is therefore very important to look at the factors that contribute to their occurrence.

One of the factors that lead to difficulties in sexual arousal in men is the so-called spectatoring – observing in which a man is focused on noticing erectile problems instead of enjoying the experience.   A common consequence of this tendency is weakening of the sexual arousal. A similar thing is present in every woman who has difficulties to reach orgasm. The more they tell themselves that they need to reach an orgasm the less chances they have to achieve orgasm because they are not focused on the erotic sensations which lead to orgasm.

If you are able to overcome these problems and relax, a good sex is guaranteed. 

Simultaneous Orgasm

A lot of couples consider simultaneous orgasm to be something extraordinary but unreachable at the same time.  Other couples confirm from their own experience that simultaneous orgasm is completely possible. You just need to master the real techniques and know your partner well in bed. There is even a third category of people who claim that although simultaneous orgasm is possible but it is a myth and fantasy that this type of orgasm is something incredible or our of the ordinary. They describe simultaneous orgasm as something that requires a lot of efforts in order to get a small prize. It doesn’t really matter if the simultaneous orgasm is something incredible or something that is almost same as regular orgasm but the fact is that it is possible to reach simultaneous orgasm. In order to reach simultaneous orgasm you should first eliminate all those movies that you have ever watched where couples almost always reach simultaneous orgasms. This is something that cannot happen in a matter of minutes. You shouldn’t spend much time analyzing your orgasm either. This can only cause counter effects.

To be honest, we should look at simultaneous orgasm not like something divine, but rather as enrichment to our current sexual life. You should certainly not be disappointed if you can achieve such an intense orgasm and you should not focus all your energy to achieve it.

One of the main reasons why simultaneous orgasms are rare is because of the average time men and women need to achieve orgasm. Many women already have problems reaching orgasm and achieving it so fast like their partners is almost impossible for them. Another obstacle is the sex positions. You can rarely find sex positions that provide the same level of excitement for both partners. This is one of the reasons why there so many sex positions and why people usually try few positions during one sexual intercourse.  

So many people are wondering - what is the best and easiest way to reach simultaneous orgasm. Sex is often described as a game with certain rules. You don’t want to use shortcuts in this game at least not if you aim to be successful. If you don’t find time for foreplay and/or the man cannot hold his ejaculation for long time you won’t be able to reach simultaneous orgasm. So first of all, both partners should learn how to restrain themselves. This rule especially applies for men. One of the most obvious signs that a man is near his orgasm is when his testicles tighten up toward the penis. When the woman notices this sign she should push gently her man in order to give him a sign in case he doesn’t notice.

Choosing the right sex position can also be very helpful for this process. The most important thing is to find a position where the woman has free access to her clitoris so she can stimulate it in case she can’t achieve orgasm at the same time with her man. 

Few things you should know about vaginal dryness

If your vagina doesn’t get enough moisture during the sexual intercourse it is very likely that you will experience unpleasant pain and even damages inside the vagina. Dry vagina is not only bad for you but it is also bad for your partner because he might experience pain and damages on the penis. In some cases the reason for this dryness is the fast foreplay and longer foreplay seems like a logical solution. Your partner can also use his tongue or saliva in order to penetrate more easily. It is completely natural that you will have certain problems with dryness during the menstrual period, because for example the tampon itself dries the vagina. That’s why you shouldn’t worry about the dryness during this period. 

Lack of wetness in vagina doesn’t always mean that you are having low sex drive. Sometimes there are periods when you are simply not that wet down there and using various products can help you. The best natural lubricant is of course the saliva but if you are having bigger problems you can use some other lubricants. Having sex with a condom that is already lubricated is another option. However you should be careful with the penetration – the penetration should be slow no matter what you use. If the vagina gets dry during the sex ask your partner to pull the penis out and use saliva for moisturizing.

When a woman reaches menopause it is a completely different situation. In these cases we are talking about hormonal changes and according to some statistics more than 20% of women have troubles with vaginal dryness during this period. We are talking about serious physical changes in the genitals and the urinary tract as well. During this period the estrogen levels are getting lower and the vaginal walls produce fewer fluids. It is very important that the partner fully understands this change and be patient. The vaginal dryness doesn’t mean lack of libido and low sex drive. If you don’t understand this change you will probably create an additional emotional problem. The vagina during menopause can still get wet but it takes more time. That’s why you should extend the time of the foreplay and you will see that the vagina will have the necessary moisture after a while.

How exactly can you moisten your vagina? Experts suggest avoiding bath oils, scented soaps, sprays and wipes for washing the vagina, because they can easily irritate the vagina and cause even more problems. It is also important to avoid decongestants and antihistamine products that are known for their role in vaginal dryness. You should use gels based on water which can be used on and inside the vagina and on your partner’s penis too. They don’t have any side effects and they are easy to apply. Having regular sexual intercourses is another useful thing in your fight against dryness, because these intercourses keep the blood flow in the genital area. If none of these things works consult a doctor.

Tips to improve your sexual health

A lot of people think that if they are using protection and they are frequently performing STD tests that they have done everything they can for their sexual health. Of course, these things are important but there are few other tips that can help you a lot to determine and improve your sexual health.

Those who want to take care of their sexual health and keep it on a high level should always know their situation in the genital area. This means that you should often explore your intimate zone. In order to keep your sexual and reproductive health in good shape, you must observe and explore it. According to some experts you should check this area every month and if you notice some unusual changes a visit to a doctor is the right thing to do.

They way you are taking a bath can significantly affect your sexual health. Try to avoid perfumed soaps, gels and very hot water. A simple mild soap made of natural ingredients and lukewarm water will get the job done. All those scents from perfumed soaps and gels could lead to vaginal irritations and vaginal dryness and hot water can also impact the moisture in the vagina too. After all, who needs a vagina that smells perfectly if it is very dry?

As you can see dryness can negatively affect the whole sexual act and that’s why you also need to pay attention to the way you dry your intimate area. The best way to do it is if you dry only the upper part of the vagina. Of course we are talking about mons pubis, the area where the hair grows. The inner part should be left to dry in a natural way. This inner part must carry moisture and you shouldn’t feel irritation when you are walking. Because of this humidity you are able to enjoy sex.

Many women think that their vaginas should have pleasant smell and often but products that guarantee that their genital area will smell good. Keep in mind that a healthy vagina doesn’t have any special scent. If you are clean and you don’t have any infection or other complication you don’t need to use those perfumed products. In fact, these products can cause damage instead of helping you. They only have short effects and after that you will have to deal with their side effects. In many cases you will end with some infection.

Every time you suspect that you are suffering from some infection consult your doctor. A lot of women think that they can perform self-diagnosis and buy medications unsuitable for their situation. There are different types of infections that require different treatment. Many of them share the same symptoms such as burning sensation, irritation and itching but they are not the same.

Using lubricants during the sexual intercourse is a great idea. You can use condoms with lubricants or specialized lubricants. These lubricants are good because they reduce the chances of a broken condom and they also reduce the chances of damages to the vagina during the intercourse. If you decide to use lubricants try the ones based on water or silicone.

Use these tips to improve your overall health and achieve complete sexual health.

Menstruation And You Sex Life

Women have to deal with menstruation in large part of their lives. Consciously or unconsciously menstruations’ scope, pace and timing plays incredibly important role in hormonal changes. The start of menstruation gives a feeling of excitement to some women while others feel depressed and sad because they didn’t manage to become pregnant. During this period a lot of women begin introspection. This is a period when a woman spends more time for herself and her body.

Medically speaking, menstruation represents a cyclical peeling of the uterine mucosa in cases when pregnancy didn’t occur. In these cases the menstrual blood doesn’t appear clotted and the blood is a little bit darker than the blood that can be seen from some other wounds on our body. What exactly is a normal cycle? That is a cycle that is stable and a cycle in which the menstrual bleeding occurs every 21 to 35 days and lasts up to seven days. The stability of the cycle is affected by many factors such as age, everyday living rhythm, lifestyle, level of stress and the amount of body fat. Did you know that an average woman bleeds around 2000 days during her life? That is around 400 menstrual cycles or around six years. Women’s menstrual rhythm is often aligned with the lunar rhythm. In these cases her ovulation starts during full moon and the bleeding starts with the new moon rhythm. Because of the hormone secretion (salivary glands, sweat) women that live in the same household usually have synced menstrual cycles.

Women, who accept menstruation as a natural process, will soon realize that they are not physically sick and non-reproductive during that period. Sexuality does not disappear during the menstrual cycle; on the contrary, sexuality exists if we strip away all the cultural barriers about the “dirt” of menstrual blood. Self awareness and awareness of the partner about bodily fluids, their color, appearance and smell will allow normal sexual intercourse. Of course we must be aware of the fact that the sexual intercourse can’t be the same during the menstrual cycle but that doesn’t have to stop us from having sex. Some women even have increased libido during this period and avoiding sexual intercourses can be very frustrating especially if we know that there is no reason to avoid them.

If you are planning to have sex during your period with a relatively unknown man, you should know that the possibility of getting infections and STDs during menstruation is significantly higher. This comes as a result of the bleeding that is happening in the vagina and the blood is a perfect place for microorganisms to procreate. That’s why it is very important to check your partner and use protection.  Also, remember to keep your hygiene on a high level during this period. Regularly change your tampons every six hours. You should also take baths and showers in order to avoid possible complications especially after a sexual intercourse. Use underwear made of cotton and change it regularly. 

Better Sexual Relationship with Trust

When talking about how to start a sexual relationship with girls, what we have in mind is how do we seduce her or lure her into bedroom. I think there are some articles here to discuss about better sexual relationship thing, well today we look it from the other perspective, not talking about having good sex technique for better sex. Not talking about the seducing part, that's the playboy style, why not today we do it with the good guy method. How you open up her heart and gain her trust to make her feel comfortable to have sex with you. If you are not able to open up her heart how are you going to get her having sex with you without hesitation?

When you are able to open up her heart, then she is more willing to share her things with you. When you are trying to gain her trust, you are not doing all the talking only but may lead the conversation to let her to express herself more. This is the way for you to get to know her more. Let her know that you can be there for her all the time and you are her best friend. Don't get caught in the middle and going directly into her friend zone, you may not be able to get out from it then. How do you do that? Don't reveal yourself fully, keep some mystery feel between both of you. A little mystery may lead to a better sexual relationship at the start. When you reveal too much about yourself, you may let her feel that you are too easy to handle, so it's better that you know how to make things interesting and maintain some mystery about yourself.

During the conversation, you may let her feel that you have some sexual desire of feel with her, implied. You have to take some risk here as you may not knowing her well, But it's ok to have some kind of trial and error, if you are not taking any risk, you may let her feel that you are too boring, let her feel some excitement.  After all, you want to make good love to her and not only a friend, you have nothing much to loss right. Who knows that she may have the same thought as you? If she is thinking the same thing then you may get what you want immediately.

Why you are not getting laid

You may have the experience that the girl you are dating, maybe a few times suddenly are not interested with you and you may wonder why. There are some real life cases that tell you that why you are not getting laid, some of them may look like nonsense to you but just bear in mind that this is how girls think. The hardest part is not having good sex. The hardest thing to control here, I think it maybe the conversation. You can't be too silent but when you are sharing something, you may have something that may offend her or make her unhappy. When you are sharing something about yourself, don't brag too much and try to be down to earth. Try to make her laugh at your jokes? Becareful with it, just look at her reaction all the time and try to know what she is thinking.

A late night snack that may turn her off? Yes, there is a case that the woman smell something from the guy he date and that just made her fell gross. The guy who took his snack with him to the woman's apartment ended up going back without anything happen. If the girl love you a lot sure you are on the safe side, but if the girl is sitting on the fence and trying to find something that she doesn't like about you, there are plenty of reasons that will turn her off. Not to mention that you want a better sex. What you can do here is trying your best to avoid it. Your cleanliness, not only yourself but your room as well. A lot of women will feel gross if your room is too dirty. There are two cases in this article of Men fitness mention about cleanliness, one of them saw some used condom beside the dustbin, the other saw a mess under the bed. Used condom just lying on the floor of your room? I think any of the reasonable men know that it's stupid, you make the girl feel like a slut to hang out with guys like you.

Do you have a dog with you in your apartment? Make sure he or she won't interrupt you while you are having sex. A girl experienced this before that the guy she met have a dog in the room, and the dog licks her leg while they are trying to have sex. It's a big distraction, and when she complains about it, the guy just petting his dog and the girl feels strange as she is petting him but he is petting a dog? She just left without a word. Kissing skill, this is the foreplay, you may have to practice it more unless you met a girl who loves you a lot and doesn't care about sex life. There are no short cuts but to practice it with your girl friend.

So guys, don't only think about improving your sex skill, all these things here can affect you as well. There are no cure for all these, you can only learn and becareful with them.

Sexual Performance Anxiety

Men always have some pressure of sexual performance, the mindset and thinking that is in the society makes them believe that they should have thoughts like this. Examples are as follow:


-can always get an erection.
-should initiate sex.
-always want sex.
-should be in control.
-give women mind-blowing orgasms.
-should have a big penis, and if they don’t, they are inadequate.
-should know what to do in the bedroom.
-should succeed.
-should hide any feelings of inadequacy or vulnerability

All these believes makes men so worried and always thinking different ways to improve sex life and sometimes they worry too much that it affect their sexual performance. They need to know that sex itself is an activity that involve 2 parties and it depends on both parties to have a good sex life. If you are worry about things like this on the bed, how are you going to enjoy sex? Like what we have discuss before, sex depend on 2 person, it require communication, different people have different preference, you can't bring all your previous experience to expect it works perfectly in current relationships. Communicate and learn is a process.


-Ask your partner to caress you, and say how you would like to be touched.
-Consciously breathe during sex.
-Say yes when you want to.
-Say no when you want to.
-Have sex only when you want it.
-Self-pleasure (masturbate) slowly.
-Fantasize when you self-pleasure.
-Touch yourself all over, and notice where it feels good.
-Talk about sex with your partner.
-Have a sexual experience with your partner without having intercourse.
-Touch your partner’s body for your own pleasure.
-Take care of your body.

There are some creative ways for you to improve sex life with your partners here. Yes, masturbate is good sometimes as it helps you to learn more about yourself, it's a way to learn about yourself. There is no shy to masturbate. Know about your body, know where is your sensitive area, you can let your partner know about it and they will know how to pleasure and satisfy you. Foreplay is a very good way to learn about your partner's body, and we have mention many time that girls do enjoy a lot during foreplay. Most of them enjoy it more than sex itself. Learn about their body and you can make them orgasm in no time and sure they will give you a very good response.

Why do people have sex?

Came across an article research why people have sex, omg, I though it's in our blood? And people still setup  research to find it out. Sex is a need of all kind of animals, right? The report seems to make sex more reasonable by saying that our brain and body are design to motivate us to have sex more. Even that we are not design the way it is, we are born for it. I think that's why we have 2 kind of sexes since we exist, male and female.

And sex can do so much of good to you, well let me come out with some reason to make sex better. Sex burns calories, I bet this is one of the most interesting way to burn calories, do you know that even kissing can burn calories as well? What else? Having sex makes your mood better, you will have a more pleasant day when you have satisfying sex, right? Sex does reduce stress, and this kind of entertainment is much better than other, it's free, ok if you have a partner. You prefer to have sex or movie or even a football match?

"Dummies.com said that many people engage in sex for the sensory experience, the wide range of physical and emotional pleasures that a person can derive from sexual activity. Part of the glue that holds longtime love together is sex" Ha, now only I know that dummies site also talk about sex. The sensory experience, the need of being hug and feel of being care and love. I guess that's the emotional pleasures means here. Sex is also one of the main factor that helps to make the relationship stronger, sex is something that can't be miss from a romantic relationship.

Having babies, is it a good thing or bad thing? It really depends on you, but luckily most of us still love to have our own children, I guess babies is one of the good thing about sex. Sex can improve social status and a kind of revenge as well? The social status it means here is to become popular, the only thing that I can think of it is using sex as a tool to become a star. And revenge? That is a very bad way to revenge, sex as a revenge?

What caused Low Sexual Drive

Low Sexual Drive is very common in female group, though there is an increasing number in male group as well. Low sex drive is a problem of hypoactive sexual desire disorder. In the mild case of low sex drive, it can be not interest to have sex during period, and some of the mild case may be they are not long to have sex or love making but they enjoy sex and orgasm at the same time. The extreme case of low sex drive may feel that sex is ugly and disgusting. You may need to consult a doctor if you have these symptoms.

There are a lot of reasons that may affect your body and mind that cause the low sex drive. The relationship problem between partners can cause low sex drive as well, if there are some conflict and uncertainties in relationship, they may have difficulties to find their interest in sex. The stress from family, working place can cause the problem as well. The working environment is getting more stressful and depress, it is affecting us in all aspect of live, it's very common case that it affect our quality of life and not to mention our sex life. Some of the time, the stressful live we have now is affecting our sleep, insomnia and lack of sleep will affect our quality of live and sexually as well.

If it's the body, it may cause by the medicine that you are taking lately, the Hormonal change in body like pregnancy, after child birth, breast feeding may cause low sex drive. Common medication like antidepressants and birth control pills interfere with sex drive, arousal and orgasm by affecting the balance of sexual hormones and the transmission of chemical messengers.

BermanSexualHealth.com wrote that menopause affects sexual desire by decreasing lubrication, lowering estrogen and testosterone levels, and other changes in the sexual response cycle. Numerous nonsexual diseases can cause HSDD, added Mayo Clinic. These include arthritis, cancer, diabetes, high blood pressure, coronary artery disease and neurological diseases.

If the medications are the cause of hypoactive sexual desire disorder, then just change it to the pills with fewer site effect. Try to find out the problem that caused low sex drive then you can solve the problem easily.

Ask her how she wants her orgasm

Yes, you have to ask her how she likes to be stimulate and play with. You have to ask her and tell her that you care for her orgasm as well. Most of the guys have no problem for orgasm but for girls, it's one out of three women have experience orgasm. The rest? Yes, they haven't experience orgasm before. I think you care for your partner's sex life, right? I don't think you want her to look for others for her sexual satisfaction. It may lead to other problems if your partner's sex life is not satisfy. You like to see her masturbate in front of you? I think most of the guys like that and she may feel shy to do so, tell her how much you like it and you may see how she play with herself. Your penis is not suitable for her? How can you solve this problem? By using different sex position. Say if you have a short penis, you can bend her leg up to her chest in missionary, this position can help you to touch her g spot more easily. If the penis is thin, this may affect her to feel the fullness while penetrate. You may use those sex position that both her leg stick together and you penetrate from outside, like doggy style. If you have a large one, then you may ask her to be on top of you so that she can control the way she feel comfortable. Most of the women feel shy when they are making love with their love one, and they may not want to risk the relationship by being too wild or shy to tell you what they want. But for guys, they want their women to be a wild cat during sex. Have you tell her about that? If you don't even tell her this then you won't able to tell her about your sexual fantasy. Communicate with her then only your sex life will be more explosive.

Sex pill isn't the answer for all erectile dysfunction issue

When it comes to erectile dysfunction, sex pill like Viagra, Cialis, Levitra, Activ Homme, Maxman, A1Satibo, Extenze are not the answer to it. You should find the cause that create this erectile dysfunction effect. Problems like unemployment, stress in the job can lead to low self esteem with the men, and this will lead to erectile dysfunction. And problems here may create problem in your relationship thus make ED a bigger problem in your relationship. Doctor suggest a medical therapy that combines erectile dysfunction pills and good relationship may have better result.

Study shows that when sexual relationship between husband and wife gone bad, their relationship are bad as well. They may love each other but they lost the interest to have sex with each other. Both parties are responsible for this and need to take some effort to improve sexual relationship. Research also shows that among the men who suffer erectile dysfunction, 50% of their wives suffer sexual dysfunction as well. Low frequency of sexual intercourse will lead them to sexual dysfunction as well. A good quality of sexual relationship will improve the relationship and less fight in the partners, their overall life will tend to improve as well. There are no way that the sex pills can improve your sexual relationship so you have to work it out with your partner. It can give you a hard penis, and that's all. Check out the post here to find out how to improve your sexual relationship and make it more interesting. Communication is important to improve your sex life.

The Best out of you

There isn't any best solution for sexual intercourse. Different people have different preference, they have different kind of favorite part in sex. Some can have orgasm multiple time for every sexual intercourse, but some are like men, they may have an orgasm only. Then women may also act like men that they turn around and go to sleep immediately after sex, some like a small chat and hug after sex. So we would like to suggest that find out your sex partner's behavior, what's her favourite pose, does she like to make love in bed, or she prefer couch, she like to be on top or she like the missionary pose. Then you may use your strength to help you in this sexual relationship. For example, those who do not have a big penis inside their pants doesn't mean they can't give their partner an orgasm. They can just use their finger and tongue to assist them in sex. They can also use some other pose to make their women feel 'full' in the vagina, like doggie style, they can even put their finger at the woman's clitoris while penetrate. Just use your strength to your advantage and don't just feel sad at what you don't have. Don't give yourself excuses that you can't satisfy them, work it out, think, make her feel comfortable, don't make yourself to predictable and so on.

Threesomes Sex

Threesomes is always a big fantasy for guys, of course we hope that there are two girls to have sex with us at the same time but not two guys to bang a girl. I had actually read an article that is telling us how to make it happen. It wrote there that some girls do feel flattered when you ask them for threesomes, keep an open mind. That doesn't mean that you can ask your wife, girlfriend just like this, there are some rules and tips for you to follow else you will ended up in a disaster. At first, you may share your fantasy with your partner, just make it like a share of fantasy but not a real suggestion. See how is she reacted to it. If she is not interested with it, that's all, end of story, you may just go to look for hookers or strippers to have sex with you at the same time, if you don't mind to pay double. So if she is interested, then you have to set some ground rules here, what is you and her limit. Does she mind if you to kiss or even penetrate or have sex with the guest star, don't push if she is not prepare for it. This rules are important, if you don't set it properly beforehand, your relationship will end up pretty badly. If this threesomes thing does happen, make sure you focus more on your wife or girl friend, she may feel jealous at any time, you have to be aware at any time. And at the same time if your partner is enjoying kissing, caressing with the guest star, don't feel bad, enjoy the show and see whether there is anything that you can do and won't affect them at the same time. Say you kiss your wife's back or holding her hand. Give as much as you can since your wife already give you such a big fantasy. If you are able to turn both the women on and they turn their focus back to you, you're in heaven man. Penetrate, know when to start the sexual intercourse is important, you have to let both of them prepare for this sex and they feel comfortable about it. By the time you penetrate, you have to take care the other party who have left out, touching to kissing her and look her in the eye. The last part is how to make yourself more 'durable', as you are having sex with both girls, you may feel more excited than usual, you may ejaculate faster than usual as well. So control yourself, slow things down then you may able to satisfy both girls, if you ejaculate sooner than their orgasm, just use your hand and mouth to finish the job. They will be please as well. Remember, this is not a relationship, so it's best not to stay over night with the guest star. Good luck for your threesomes sex.

Supercharged sex

I'm thinking of what title to put for this post, but the main purpose is to supercharge your sexual experience. This can make both parties high and get the orgasm you want. The thing here is very simple and you may experience it before. Have you ever turn on by your partner and you are not able to have sex with her at that particular time. For example when you are in the cinema? And the sex you have right after back from cinema is pretty great, right? This is what we want to share today, the sexual intercourse will be very explosive. Set a date, say every 15th and 30th of the month, that both of you can only kiss, hug, caress each other, do whatever you want to turn each other on but not taking off your panties. So when you guys have sex the next day, the sexual experience will be mind blowing, the girls like it a lot as well. And the extra thing that you can do to make it more spicy, give your partner some dirty message or call to make them expect to have a wonderful sex when they reach home after work. Trigger their sexual needs in the afternoon and they can do nothing other than wait until after working hours. They will be like a wild cat. This is something that can make your week day more special, right?