Many married couples or couples that are part of a long-term
relationship are experiencing serious problems or even divorces and separation
as a result of insufficient or complete lack of sex, sexual desire or passion.
When partners don’t share these intimate moments together their relationship is
going in a different direction making everything difficult. Sexless
relationships are not as rare as most people think. Of course, we can’t find
the right number because people usually avoid talking about this, but their
number is certainly high. In case both partners, or at least one of the
partners, doesn’t take some action in a timely manner, the relationship will
simply break up or one of them will start cheating. If you are in a situation
like this, it is time to use some of the tips we will share in this article.
The first step is to determine the cause of this serious
issue. The fact is that there are many different things that can affect our sex
lives. For example, some men or women are afraid of pregnancy, others don’t
have sufficient sex drive while some develop antipathy against their wife or
husband. In any case, what really matters is to find the exact cause. If you
are not able to do this on your own, you can talk to an experienced therapist.
They are true professionals who will help you, but only if you are completely
open.
The next advice is to talk to your partner. Don’t avoid this
issue and don’t be shy. A sexless
relationship is a problem and it should be discussed. It might be a little bit
odd in the beginning, but it will eventually help. It is important not to blame
anyone for the situation. The main point is to find a way to solve this issue
and continue with your relationship as it once was.
Most experts agree that spending more quality time with your
partner can fix your relationship. By spending more time with your partner you
will increase trust and love. So, don’t forget the romantic dinners, long
morning or afternoon walks, cuddling, hugging, sharing an activity, going
outside together and other things that can make your relationship more
interesting and exciting.
If you want to maintain a high
level of passion in a long relationship or marriage, you should also continue
flirting all the time. Don’t hesitate to send a provocative text message, be
intimate when you can and take care of yourself- wear beautiful clothes, shave,
take care of your hair etc. This is a good way to spark romance.
In addition, visit a doctor and check your overall health. See
whether some health issue is making you lose interest in sex. If you are taking
pills, try to switch to other pills in case they are affecting your sex drive.
