So you’ve worked
round the clock trying to make ends meet to provide for your family and also go
on that vacation you deserve. You’ve also noticed how difficult it is to keep a
sexual routine with your partner because of how busy you can get. She hardly complains,
because you guys have had discussions on vacation, and have made plans. It’s been a while you’ve been on vacation; it’s also been a while you’ve had a romantic getaway with your partner and you are wondering
how to rekindle the lust between both of you while on vacation. Here are four ways to ensure you get enough of each other on that trip:
Location matters
What location
have you picked for your vacation? Somewhere close to home or another country?
How romantic is the setting of the location? Is it where people come for their
honeymoon, or where people visit for sightseeing? If you are planning a
vacation to spend romantic time with your partner, ensure that you pick the
right location that will set things up. Remember this is not a family vacation
where you have to consider the needs of your children. It’s something involving
just both of you. Choose a location that will set you in the mood for sex,
somewhere not too cold or hot, but cool weather
that will make you guys want to cling on to each other for the rest of the
trip. Ensure they don’t allow children there too.
Make a bucket list
What do you hope
to achieve with your partner during this trip? Do you want to explore her body
on a deeper level? Get to know her g-spot or erogenous zones? Try out crazy sex positions? 50
shades of gray motivated? Sex on the beach? Want sex full of toys? You can write out different things you wish to
try out and get her to write hers too. Writing a bucket list and sharing with
each other will build the momentum and excitement that will make you do a
countdown to the big day.
What’s in the luggage?
Surely not some
old undies and worn out shorts. It’s been
a while you’ve had enough time to yourself, so why bring up the past. Please
keep out the oldies and go shopping for some new sexy Victoria secret and puma
briefs. Your babe can also add some wigs for different character roles
depending on the level of sexual communication you both have. Sex toys,
lubricants, contraceptives, massage oils, chocolate
thongs, undies, etc. should be in that bag unless you plan on getting them when
you arrive at your destination.
Build momentum
So you’ve
finally gotten to your destination. Your room looks inviting, red rose petals
at strategic places. Do you think it’s right to jump into sex right away? While
there is nothing wrong with this, you can
be sure your first vacation sex will be boring. Do something that will increase sex drive for each other, a warm bath, exercise, massage, skydiving, etc. You do
not need to rush things; you are on
vacation.
