Making That Vacation Sex Work

So you’ve worked round the clock trying to make ends meet to provide for your family and also go on that vacation you deserve. You’ve also noticed how difficult it is to keep a sexual routine with your partner because of how busy you can get. She hardly complains, because you guys have had discussions on vacation, and have made plans. It’s been a while you’ve been on vacation; it’s also been a while you’ve had a romantic getaway with your partner and you are wondering how to rekindle the lust between both of you while on vacation. Here are four ways to ensure you get enough of each other on that trip:

Location matters

What location have you picked for your vacation? Somewhere close to home or another country? How romantic is the setting of the location? Is it where people come for their honeymoon, or where people visit for sightseeing? If you are planning a vacation to spend romantic time with your partner, ensure that you pick the right location that will set things up. Remember this is not a family vacation where you have to consider the needs of your children. It’s something involving just both of you. Choose a location that will set you in the mood for sex, somewhere not too cold or hot, but cool weather that will make you guys want to cling on to each other for the rest of the trip. Ensure they don’t allow children there too.

Make a bucket list

What do you hope to achieve with your partner during this trip? Do you want to explore her body on a deeper level? Get to know her g-spot or erogenous zones? Try out crazy sex positions? 50 shades of gray motivated? Sex on the beach? Want sex full of toys? You can write out different things you wish to try out and get her to write hers too. Writing a bucket list and sharing with each other will build the momentum and excitement that will make you do a countdown to the big day.

What’s in the luggage?

Surely not some old undies and worn out shorts. It’s been a while you’ve had enough time to yourself, so why bring up the past. Please keep out the oldies and go shopping for some new sexy Victoria secret and puma briefs. Your babe can also add some wigs for different character roles depending on the level of sexual communication you both have. Sex toys, lubricants, contraceptives, massage oils, chocolate thongs, undies, etc. should be in that bag unless you plan on getting them when you arrive at your destination.

Build momentum

So you’ve finally gotten to your destination. Your room looks inviting, red rose petals at strategic places. Do you think it’s right to jump into sex right away? While there is nothing wrong with this, you can be sure your first vacation sex will be boring. Do something that will increase sex drive for each other, a warm bath, exercise, massage, skydiving, etc. You do not need to rush things; you are on vacation.

How to Be a Sexual King in Bed

If you truly want your girl to shout out your name in the midst of multiple orgasms, then you need moves that will please your girl and enable you to have fun too.

There are some moves that will truly enable you to turn into a sexual king in bed even as your girl turns into a shrieking queen begging for a sexual encore.

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You should realize that you need to be in control when you are having sex with your girl. This does not mean that you slap your girl around, although some fantasies do involve a bit of slapping, in turn, means that you act with passion and confidence. Do not be a wimp in bed but understand that girls like confident guys that know what moves to make to make a girl co crazy with desire.

Instead of simply focusing on your sexual pleasure, you should first concentrate on getting your girl all heated up with sexual desire. Start out by whispering naughty things in her ear. This will make her shiver in anticipation as you describe each sexual act that you plan to confer upon her.

Passionate foreplay techniques will surely be applauded by your girl in the form of moans and grunts of pleasure. Remember that you have many tools other than your penis to please your girl. You can kiss your girl on her lips, abdomen, breasts and thighs and also use your lips and tongue to stimulating her clitoris seductively. This move, when combined with a few fingers, is sure to result in at least a couple of intense orgasm from your girl.

While your girl would by now be ready to accept you as her king, you will still need to lay claim to the throne by penetrating her. Make sure that she is ready for you and also use sex positions that enable you to stimulate her g-spot by adjusting the angle of your penis. If your foreplay techniques have done their job well, then the penetration will take her to the seventh heaven of pleasure, and you will both achieve a royal orgasm together.

If you both have reached your orgasm and planned to continue lovemaking, stay in bed. To revive your energy levels, hug, cuddle, kiss and talk. Remember, lovemaking is not just a physical act, and it requires a level of emotional bonding too. Once you’ve reached climax don’t just turn your back on her or flip onto your back; look deep into her eyes and reassure her about how attracted you are to her and how much you cherish your time with her. Do this and you won't need to work too hard to stimulate her for a continued session of lovemaking.

Bent Penis: The Best Sex Positions

The functionality of the penis is a big deal to most guys, which is one reason why possessing a bent penis can be a source of legitimate concern for many men. This can be especially true when it comes to how a bent penis may potentially alter the mechanics involved in intercourse. While practicing proper penis care is always advised to help with many common matters, in this instance an exploration of appropriate sex positions may prove especially helpful for sexual relationship.

How bent?
It's important to realize that some curvature of the penis is normal. True, there are some men who possess a member which is totally straight when erect; however, it also is quite common for there to be some leaning to the left or right, or up or down. So curvature itself is not a problem; an issue arises only when the curvature presents to a degree that can potentially impede the penis' proper placement during sexual activity.

When the bend is potentially sexual problem, it may mean that adjustments need to be made to find the best sex positions. The following are some of the sex positions which may be more accommodating to a bent penis.

1) Sideways missionary. This position often works when a man's penis curves to the side (either left or right). It's a "mixed use" position, with the woman lying on her side, knees bent and the man lying atop her in the traditional missionary position. (The side that the woman lies on will depend on which way the penis curves). By essentially creating a situation in which the participants are at a 90 degree angle, this position helps to compensate for the bend to the side of the manhood.

2) Doggy style. If the bent penis curves in a downward slope, rear-entry positions tend to be ideal. Again, this allows the curvature of the penis to more naturally follow the vaginal lay. It also allows the male greater freedom to re-position himself - in some cases, literally keeping him on his toes - to change the angle of thrust as needed.

3) Sitting straddle. For men with an upward curvature, a woman-on-top position can be very helpful. One of the best involves the male sitting, possibly leaning back a bit and bracing himself with his hands or elbows. The woman straddles the male and lowers herself onto the penis, using her hands to guide the member as needed. This position can also be beneficial for penises that curve downward. With a downward-plunging member, the woman again sits atop the man, but faces away from him.

4) Standing straddle. As the name implies, this is similar to the sitting straddle - except the man is standing rather than sitting. It's another position that works best for an upward-curved penis, although some limber women have found that they can better accommodate a left- or right-leaning penis in this position as well.

Finding the right fit
Most men with a bent penis find the sex positions that work best for them with only a little experimenting. Sometimes, however, the penis can become more bent over time, often a result of rough sex, in which aggressive action causes small traumas which create scar tissue when they heal. Sometimes this tissue causes the penis to bend.

While finding good sex positions for a bent penis is an excellent idea, so is working to prevent scar tissue from adding to the degree of curvature. In addition to avoiding too-rough sex, it pays to apply a superior penis health

Deep Penetration Positions - Explosive Orgasm for Both of You

The best sex positions enable both you and your partner to achieve simultaneous orgasms. However, a lot of people don't seem to get it right. According to a recent survey by ABC News, only 30% of American women reported they "always" manage to orgasm in sex. Now ask yourself: is your woman in the same shoe as them?

Fortunately, you do not have to master the skill of a porn actor to satisfy your woman. There are easy positions that allow deep penetration and erotic stimulate high sex drives for both of you. Read out as we reveal the low down of the best deep penetration positions:

Important: Do not underestimate foreplay!

Foreplay for men is everything that happens about 3 minutes before sex.-Dr. Louann Brizendine

If you view foreplay this way, then you are into alot lot of troubles. According to experts, it takes minimum 15 minutes of arousal time before a woman can reach orgasm. Foreplay is a fundamental step to prepare her for lovemaking. It helps to release fluids from the private areas to enhance sexual pleasure and intense orgasm. If you rush sex, she will have difficulties to achieve the big "O". Besides, she may feel uncomfortable with your penetration due to lack of moisture. There's nothing worse than a painful intercourse!

In a nutshell, please do not be stingy with foreplay. There are many ways to make her reach near orgasm during foreplay, including hugging, oral sex, kissing, and sensual massage. The primary focus should be her pleasure.

Deep Penetration Positions

1. Lotus Position

In this posture, you sit on the bed with extended or crossed legs. She sits on your lap and places her hands on your shoulder. Then, she wraps her legs around your waist with moving up and down along your penis shaft.

Tip: As she is doing her job, try to squeeze your PC muscle as though you are doing Kegel exercise. It will exponentially intensify your orgasm!

2. Full Mast Position

It is the standard missionary position with a little twist. As she lies on her back, put her legs on your chest, then raise legs up to form a "L" shape in relation to her body. You knee down in front of her and penetrate from front. This position allows deep thrusting and provides high level of sensation as it makes you feel tight.

Tip: Instead of lying on the bed, have her to lie on a table where her buttock is positioned at the edge. It will allow you to penetrate deeper and leave your hands free to fondle her body, it will boost her sexual desire.

3. Cowgirl position

Cowgirl position is an incredible deep penetration position. It allows deep thrusting and erotic stimulation. In a typical cowgirl position, you lie on your back while she sits on top of you to do all the work. She is in charge of the angle and speed of stimulation which equals maximum sensation for both of you. If your woman is conscious of body image, suggest reverse cowgirl position which she faces against you.

Tip: The up-and-down movement can be pretty tiring for her. You can have her to slightly bend forward and move back and forth. It requires less effort from her and also increases chances of clitoral orgasm.

Now listen, when these tips are combined, it will send her to absolute heaven!

Simultaneous Orgasm

A lot of couples consider simultaneous orgasm to be something extraordinary but unreachable at the same time.  Other couples confirm from their own experience that simultaneous orgasm is completely possible. You just need to master the real techniques and know your partner well in bed. There is even a third category of people who claim that although simultaneous orgasm is possible but it is a myth and fantasy that this type of orgasm is something incredible or our of the ordinary. They describe simultaneous orgasm as something that requires a lot of efforts in order to get a small prize. It doesn’t really matter if the simultaneous orgasm is something incredible or something that is almost same as regular orgasm but the fact is that it is possible to reach simultaneous orgasm. In order to reach simultaneous orgasm you should first eliminate all those movies that you have ever watched where couples almost always reach simultaneous orgasms. This is something that cannot happen in a matter of minutes. You shouldn’t spend much time analyzing your orgasm either. This can only cause counter effects.

To be honest, we should look at simultaneous orgasm not like something divine, but rather as enrichment to our current sexual life. You should certainly not be disappointed if you can achieve such an intense orgasm and you should not focus all your energy to achieve it.

One of the main reasons why simultaneous orgasms are rare is because of the average time men and women need to achieve orgasm. Many women already have problems reaching orgasm and achieving it so fast like their partners is almost impossible for them. Another obstacle is the sex positions. You can rarely find sex positions that provide the same level of excitement for both partners. This is one of the reasons why there so many sex positions and why people usually try few positions during one sexual intercourse.  

So many people are wondering - what is the best and easiest way to reach simultaneous orgasm. Sex is often described as a game with certain rules. You don’t want to use shortcuts in this game at least not if you aim to be successful. If you don’t find time for foreplay and/or the man cannot hold his ejaculation for long time you won’t be able to reach simultaneous orgasm. So first of all, both partners should learn how to restrain themselves. This rule especially applies for men. One of the most obvious signs that a man is near his orgasm is when his testicles tighten up toward the penis. When the woman notices this sign she should push gently her man in order to give him a sign in case he doesn’t notice.

Choosing the right sex position can also be very helpful for this process. The most important thing is to find a position where the woman has free access to her clitoris so she can stimulate it in case she can’t achieve orgasm at the same time with her man. 

Treatment Of Premature Ejaculation

You will be surprised at how many men believe that they are suffering from premature ejaculation. Now, technically, premature ejaculation is only if the male lasts less than a couple of minutes in bed. Most men want to last a bit longer though. On this page I am going to share a couple of tips that will help you lasting longer in bed.

Firstly, and this tip is for the woman, do not taunt a man if he suffers from premature ejaculation. Not even a light hearted joke is fine. Trust me on this one, it is not going to help the situation. In fact, if anything it is going to make the problem a whole lot worse. Most premature ejaculation issues are down to anxiety. You are not helping when you verbally abuse your man.

Most men in 'minor' premature ejaculation cases use a number of different products to help them out. Condoms are a 'must have'. They help to reduce sensitivity in the penis. There are a couple of condoms on the market which have been specifically designed for those who suffer from premature ejaculation. You really do not need the 'special' ones though. Purchasing any condom should be fine. You can also purchase a couple of 'over the counter' products which have been designed for premature ejaculation. There are a couple of lotions out there which help to decrease sensitivity in the penis. I always do suggest going down the condom route first though. This is mainly because you do not know what effect the lotion is going to have on the woman's vagina.

Premature ejaculation is sometimes the result of decreased sexual activity. Think about it. The longer you go without sex, the more you want it. The more you want it, the more you will want to reach the pleasurable heights of 'finishing'. This means that you are going to finish quickly. Now, obviously the best solution here is to simply have sex more. If this is not an option, then a bit more masturbation will certainly not go amiss. Masturbation is a fantastic way to 'train' yourself not to finish so quick. Most premature ejaculation issues are actually the result of 'fast masturbation' when younger, believe it or not.

You may also want to try different sex positions. Generally speaking, missionary position, one of the most common sexual positions, is one of the worst for premature ejaculation. Mix things up a little. Not only will sex be a lot more pleasurable, but you will hopefully last a lot longer.

Finally, you may also want to use a 'start-stop' technique. This is that as soon as you come close to the point of sexual pleasure, you simply stop having sex, please the lady a little bit more, and give yourself to calm down. Sex will last a lot longer like this, but it can be incredibly frustrating for both involved. Give it a go. However, there is a chance that you may not actually like it.