A lot of couples consider simultaneous orgasm to be
something extraordinary but unreachable at the same time. Other couples confirm from their own
experience that simultaneous orgasm is completely possible. You just need to
master the real techniques and know your partner well in bed. There is even a
third category of people who claim that although simultaneous orgasm is
possible but it is a myth and fantasy that this type of orgasm is something
incredible or our of the ordinary. They describe simultaneous orgasm as
something that requires a lot of efforts in order to get a small prize. It
doesn’t really matter if the simultaneous orgasm is something incredible or
something that is almost same as regular orgasm but the fact is that it is
possible to reach simultaneous orgasm. In order to reach simultaneous orgasm
you should first eliminate all those movies that you have ever watched where
couples almost always reach simultaneous orgasms. This is something that cannot
happen in a matter of minutes. You shouldn’t spend much time analyzing your
orgasm either. This can only cause counter effects.
To be honest, we should look at simultaneous orgasm not like
something divine, but rather as enrichment to our current sexual life. You
should certainly not be disappointed if you can achieve such an intense orgasm and you
should not focus all your energy to achieve it.
One of the main reasons why simultaneous orgasms are rare is
because of the average time men and women need to achieve orgasm. Many women
already have problems reaching orgasm and achieving it so fast like their
partners is almost impossible for them. Another obstacle is the sex positions.
You can rarely find sex positions that provide the same level of excitement for
both partners. This is one of the reasons why there so many sex positions and
why people usually try few positions during one sexual intercourse.
So many people are wondering - what is the best and easiest
way to reach simultaneous orgasm. Sex is often described as a game with certain
rules. You don’t want to use shortcuts in this game at least not if you aim to
be successful. If you don’t find time for foreplay and/or the man cannot hold
his ejaculation for long time you won’t be able to reach simultaneous orgasm.
So first of all, both partners should learn how to restrain themselves. This
rule especially applies for men. One of the most obvious signs that a man is
near his orgasm is when his testicles tighten up toward the penis. When the
woman notices this sign she should push gently her man in order to give him a
sign in case he doesn’t notice.
Choosing the right sex position can also be very helpful for
this process. The most important thing is to find a position where the woman
has free access to her clitoris so she can stimulate it in case she can’t
achieve orgasm at the same time with her man.
