Sex & you

Sex & you

Monday, March 17, 2014

Treatment Of Premature Ejaculation

You will be surprised at how many men believe that they are suffering from premature ejaculation. Now, technically, premature ejaculation is only if the male lasts less than a couple of minutes in bed. Most men want to last a bit longer though. On this page I am going to share a couple of tips that will help you lasting longer in bed.

Firstly, and this tip is for the woman, do not taunt a man if he suffers from premature ejaculation. Not even a light hearted joke is fine. Trust me on this one, it is not going to help the situation. In fact, if anything it is going to make the problem a whole lot worse. Most premature ejaculation issues are down to anxiety. You are not helping when you verbally abuse your man.

Most men in 'minor' premature ejaculation cases use a number of different products to help them out. Condoms are a 'must have'. They help to reduce sensitivity in the penis. There are a couple of condoms on the market which have been specifically designed for those who suffer from premature ejaculation. You really do not need the 'special' ones though. Purchasing any condom should be fine. You can also purchase a couple of 'over the counter' products which have been designed for premature ejaculation. There are a couple of lotions out there which help to decrease sensitivity in the penis. I always do suggest going down the condom route first though. This is mainly because you do not know what effect the lotion is going to have on the woman's vagina.

Premature ejaculation is sometimes the result of decreased sexual activity. Think about it. The longer you go without sex, the more you want it. The more you want it, the more you will want to reach the pleasurable heights of 'finishing'. This means that you are going to finish quickly. Now, obviously the best solution here is to simply have sex more. If this is not an option, then a bit more masturbation will certainly not go amiss. Masturbation is a fantastic way to 'train' yourself not to finish so quick. Most premature ejaculation issues are actually the result of 'fast masturbation' when younger, believe it or not.

You may also want to try different sex positions. Generally speaking, missionary position, one of the most common sexual positions, is one of the worst for premature ejaculation. Mix things up a little. Not only will sex be a lot more pleasurable, but you will hopefully last a lot longer.

Finally, you may also want to use a 'start-stop' technique. This is that as soon as you come close to the point of sexual pleasure, you simply stop having sex, please the lady a little bit more, and give yourself to calm down. Sex will last a lot longer like this, but it can be incredibly frustrating for both involved. Give it a go. However, there is a chance that you may not actually like it.