You will be surprised at how many men
believe that they are suffering from premature ejaculation. Now, technically,
premature ejaculation is only if the male lasts less than a couple of minutes
in bed. Most men want to last a bit longer though. On this page I am going to
share a couple of tips that will help you lasting longer in bed.
Firstly, and this tip is for the woman, do
not taunt a man if he suffers from premature ejaculation. Not even a light
hearted joke is fine. Trust me on this one, it is not going to help the
situation. In fact, if anything it is going to make the problem a whole lot
worse. Most premature ejaculation issues are down to anxiety. You are not
helping when you verbally abuse your man.
Most men in 'minor' premature ejaculation
cases use a number of different products to help them out. Condoms are a 'must
have'. They help to reduce sensitivity in the penis. There are a couple of
condoms on the market which have been specifically designed for those who
suffer from premature ejaculation. You really do not need the 'special' ones
though. Purchasing any condom should be fine. You can also purchase a couple of
'over the counter' products which have been designed for premature ejaculation.
There are a couple of lotions out there which help to decrease sensitivity in
the penis. I always do suggest going down the condom route first though. This
is mainly because you do not know what effect the lotion is going to have on
the woman's vagina.
Premature ejaculation is sometimes the
result of decreased sexual activity. Think about it. The longer you go without
sex, the more you want it. The more you want it, the more you will want to
reach the pleasurable heights of 'finishing'. This means that you are going to
finish quickly. Now, obviously the best solution here is to simply have sex
more. If this is not an option, then a bit more masturbation will certainly not
go amiss. Masturbation is a fantastic way to 'train' yourself not to finish so
quick. Most premature ejaculation issues are actually the result of 'fast
masturbation' when younger, believe it or not.
You may also want to try different sex positions. Generally speaking, missionary position, one of the most common
sexual positions, is one of the worst for premature ejaculation. Mix things up
a little. Not only will sex be a lot more pleasurable, but you will hopefully
last a lot longer.
Finally, you may also want to use a
'start-stop' technique. This is that as soon as you come close to the point of sexual pleasure, you simply stop having sex, please the lady a little bit more, and
give yourself to calm down. Sex will last a lot longer like this, but it can be
incredibly frustrating for both involved. Give it a go. However, there is a
chance that you may not actually like it.
