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Showing posts with label sex tips. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sex tips. Show all posts

Saturday, April 26, 2014

Practical Sex Tips to Reach an Orgasm

The difficulty to reach an orgasm is present in many women. According to some studies, related to this problem, many women don’t actually enjoy in the sexual intercourse. There are many different reasons for this situation but most often they are related to the wrong picture about sex. In the basis of inability to reach orgasm lay some emotional and psychological problems.

One of the main reasons why women have trouble to reach intense orgasm is their insecurity about their appearance. There are many women who think that their body is not very attractive and they feel ashamed of themselves. This leads to stress and inability to reach orgasm. So the first step toward the solution for this problem is to accept your own body. It is very important to explore our own body even if we think that we should change some things about it. 

Women who want to feel relaxed need to abandon the perfectionist view of the things and need to understand that the body doesn’t have to be perfect in order to enjoy sex. One good practical advice is to look at the mirror while you are naked. After you have seen your body from different angles you will realize that your partner actually finds your body attractive. You will learn to respect yourself and you will gain confidence.

Besides the importance of acceptance of your own body, if you are suffering from difficulties to reach orgasm you should also perform certain exercises which will increase your chances to reach orgasm. The exercises that we are talking about refer to training so-called PC muscle that contracts during orgasm. Kegel exercises are one of the best exercises for this muscle and they significantly increase the chances of experiencing orgasm. If you want to locate the PC muscle the best way to do that is to try to stop urinating. The muscles that will stop the urination is the PC muscle. There are numerous Kegel exercises that can help you strengthen the PC muscle. The best thing about these exercises is that they can be performed anywhere you want.
Once you get familiar with your own body and start training your PC muscle you should start with masturbation too. 

Many women associate masturbation with shame, guilt and embarrassment. But it is a well known fact that masturbation is something completely natural. So, if you have never practiced masturbation now is the right time to start. With the help of masturbation you will find what makes you aroused, you will learn how to control the excitement and finally how to relax and achieve stronger erection. Don’t be afraid to experiment with sex toy or other techniques used for masturbation. They can also help you with this process.

Finally, when you have walked all these steps you are ready for the final step and that’s talking with your partner. Open communication might sound like a difficult thing but there is nothing wrong about talking with your partner openly about what stimulates you and what makes you happy in your bed. Keeping things like that to yourself will only get you frustrated. Remember that men can’t read your thoughts and that’s why you need to share your thoughts with them.

As you see, overcoming the problem of inability to reach orgasm requires dedicated and hard work, exercising and proper attitude. 

Thursday, March 20, 2014

Sex tips To Improve Your Sex Life

No matter what sexy situation you find yourself in it can always be improved. From the friend you have liked for years offering a friends with benefits deal, trying a position you fantasies about, or just an evening with your long time interest there are ways to improve the experience.

No two people, relationships or situations are the same. Nevertheless, all human bodies and minds are similar enough that relationship advice can apply to you.

Multiple surveys have shown that men want their partner to orgasm, but men do not know where the g-spot is, and many questions its existence entirely. The good news is, it does exist, and the better news is you can find it!

Aside from the g-spot, there are a host of other little tips and tricks to improve your sex life, and hers. While most things will seem insignificant, when combined together they can create an orgasm you and her will never forget.

Forget about the typical advice you have heard our tips are frank and practical. Read on for a sexual education the likes of which would make an educational establishment blush. With minimal to no prep you can put these tips and tricks in to use in the next ten minutes or ten years.

Start At The Beginning

Timing is everything. While the movies may tell you morning sex is great, but if you are getting frisky while she is getting ready for work, the result can be catastrophic, leaving you with your hand for an extended period. To avoid this sex problems wait until after a romantic movie, nightly cuddle or if you want morning sex wait until a day when there is nothing planned that way there is no need to rush and you can enjoy your time together.

Enjoy A Shower

Shower sex is a classic fantasy. However, anyone who has attempted it can tell you it is not as fun as it looks. The angles are awkward and the water makes things very slippery. In addition to the water making things slippery, it can make your ladies vagina dry as it rinses away any natural lubrication.

There is a way to enjoy shower sex though. First is to perfect a comfortable standing up position on dry land. Once you do this, try it in the shower. If it works, great, if not there is still hope. Take time in the shower to wash each other. Do not be in a hurry to get clean, appreciate and familiarize yourself with your partners’ body. If shower sex did not work for you, shower masturbation is a close second.

Saturday, March 8, 2014

Boost Her Sexual Pleasure With Clitoral And G-Spot Orgasms

Seeing our partner smiling with satisfaction after sex is something that will make us proud. Every man wants to give sexual pleasure to their partner, therefore, many of them are looking for tips on how to please a woman in bed. When it comes to sex, you will find many tips on how to satisfy a woman. And although you will find different tips on the internet, but basically, there are always similarities between them. Almost all of those tips stated that you need to focus on two areas when you're having sex, and they are the clitoris and G spot. They are the most sensitive areas of women’s body. The clitoris is the easiest part because you can find it easily. Women will reach orgasm easily when their clitoris being stimulated, and when masturbating, most of them also have an orgasm from sexual stimulation in this area. As for the G spot, this part is quite difficult to identify because it is located inside the vagina, more precisely, slightly above the pubic bone. Women can have multiple orgasms when this area gets stimulus. Those are the two areas you need to focus on when you're making love with your partner, and here are the tips to stimulate those areas.


This area is very sensitive, and if it gets the correct stimulus, women will reach the climax faster. To stimulate the clitoris, you can use two fingers. Use these fingers to rub the top of the clitoral hood gently. Be careful when doing this because some women are not comfortable with direct stimulation of the clitoris because it can be painful. Therefore, you can start by giving her the right amount of pleasure with indirect stimulation. When she looks started to enjoy it, you can increase the speed of the stimulation. Aside from that, you can stimulate her clitoris with your tongue, and it seems that this is the most convenient way for women because besides the tongue is softer, the tongue could also provide some sort of lubrication.

Stimulating The G-Spot

The G spot cannot be seen from the outside, you have to insert your finger to feel it. With your palm facing up, insert your finger into the vagina. Move your finger with the ‘come here’ motion, and feel the top of the vaginal cavity, delicate and smooth. That is the G spot, and when this area is stimulated, the woman will be able to get a multiple orgasm. It is also often referred to as a deep orgasm, and it can last longer than a clitoral orgasm. She certainly will really enjoy this. The G spot is very sensitive, but anyway, you may need to start with a warm up first. After she got aroused, you can continue your stimulation to the clitoris. Stimulate her clitoris for some time, let her get to the edge of orgasm, then hold down your finger. Repeat this process a few times before you move on to the G spot stimulation.

If you are having problems in your sex life, you might consider trying the tips above. You may consider about natural male enhancement pill, it may help lasting longer in bed. Remember that you should be focused on two areas. This way, you will be able to make your partner happy when in bed. When you successfully deliver it, apparently, your bed will come back to life again.

Thursday, March 21, 2013

Flirting with girls

Flirt is an art, it's sex with conversation. If you master this slightly well, you will have no problem getting into the next stage with girls. When you can make them feel sexy, they can be turn on even by just talking with you. This is what you call seduce, but not with your sexy look, with just your mouth. A good start with the conversation is like foreplay with words, it will help you to have a better sex later on. Of course, you don't look awful, try to make yourself presentable or at least the girls are comfortable to hang out with you. When you are flirting with a girl, the environment is important, you have to pick a nice place for you to have a nice chat with her. An alcohol drink can definitely help you to a lot, it may spice up the night and make your target girl more easy to open up with you.

When talking to her, you may talk about something that is more emotional like childhood memories, her passion, girls like that. It will open up her heart and easy to get into her mind. You may prepared the topic in advanced, try to take control of the conversation and lead it to where you want it. Girls like guys who can take control of the conversation. Take control of a conversation is like taking control of a good sex. Teasing is a good way to make the conversation fun and flirty, it is always good if you are out of words or the conversation is getting boring. Don't go too harsh on the topic especially it's something too personal, you don't want to ruin the night. You can make the conversation fun even it's not that funny, make her 'feel' it's fun and enjoy to be with you. Having a good conversation is like having a good sex as well. You have to compliment her but not too much, too much of it will make her feel that you want to impress her which may have an opposite effect.

Beware of her body language, they will give you a lot of hints about how she is feeling right now. Pay attention to them and you will know what to do next to overcome it. Women do like when you take the conversation to an intimate level, well if she don't react good with it then you know she is not prepared to have the intimate conversation with you. Don't be afraid that you look her in a sexual way, else you will just ended up in the friend zone.

Sunday, January 13, 2013

Sex Advice

I had share with you that a sex text is always a good foreplay even when they are not in front of you. This can help them to be in the mood for sex before you even start foreplay. It's a good way to stimulate your partner if you are in a rush, a quickie. You will hope that your partner is enjoying sex even it's a quickie, everyone is hoping they can have a better sex life, and only some text message can help you to make the sex better, isn't it amazing?

Text flirting is one of the foreplay, so if you can make a good foreplay, you will have better sex. Don't think that this texting thing won't help you. Go for it.

There are some samples here that can help you, it's from Red Book Mag. I'm sure you can search online for more flirty text message to turn your partner on when he or she is still working. The text messages here are some examples, and it's from her to him, guys you have to come up with your own.

-"I'm trying on bras but I need a second opinion."
-"Waiting for you at home: beer, chips, and best of all, me!"
-"You, last night. #makingmeblushtoday"
-"Tonight's plan: making you appreciate chocolate as much as I do. You'll see."
-"Picked up a surprise for after the kids go to sleep. I think we need to move up their bedtime for tonight."
-"I found my cheerleading outfit. It still fits."
-"My thoughts are unusually R-rated today. I can't imagine why…"
-"So, I'm really learning a lot at that pole dancing class…"
-"This text message is a gift certificate for one move of your choice tonight. Present it at the door."
-"No kids. No panties. No rules."

The best thing about these sex messages, it takes you not more than 5 second to read it. Can we say that you may turn him on in 5 seconds? Remotely! Girls don't worry that your body is not in shape, your breast is not the same size, guys won't be able to notice that when they are having sex with you. Of course you can always improve yourself to have better sex, but don't give yourself too much pressure during sex. You may do all these in your daily life. Not in shape? Do some exercise, have a jog, find something that you enjoy so you won't feel the pain while working out. My friend will turn on the music and dancing while she is cleaning the floor.

Wednesday, December 19, 2012

Turn up your sex life

Have you listen to Far East Movement's Turn up the love? I like this song a lot, it's my favourite running song. Today we are going to turn up not only your love but your sex life, yes. Before we go into details, well how do you feel about your body? Do you think you have a sexy body? Are you fit enough? Don't get me wrong, I like a bit of tummy as  well, but a bit only not too much. Not only fit is sexy, but it's good for your health and very important, it can improve your sex life. Not to mention you look more sexy with a six pack, but the muscle group can help you to perform better in sex as well. Online now to search for more information about exercise, start from small, small is better than nothing. Get your ass off the couch and go outside, you will get the power to run. The more you run, the more energy you have to fight the fat in your stomach. The body you train here can help you to be better in sex.

Come back to our turn up the sex life. When you thinking of making love, you will most probably assume it happen at night maybe after dinner and a drink or two. But when you are after dinner and have a drink or two, you are most probably tired or even drunk. Why don't you arrange your date for breakfast? The main thing is to spend some quality time together, research shows that couple who meet at least once a week have higher probability of having mind blowing sex.

When you are having a stressful week, it's less likely that you will enjoy your sex. Go out for a walk and relax your mind and body, it will help you to enjoy your sex. And love making is good for relieve your stress as well. We have share with you regarding sex text, this intimate text will help you and your partner to get into the mood of sex way before you meet up. You can imagine that by the time you see each other, it's going to blow up your sex. Sweet talk is another way to boost the excitement in sex life, you know that the most sensitive part is not their breast or vagina but their mind. After you get into their mind, she is all yours. You will have a better sex.

Tuesday, June 12, 2012

Sex Tips for Better Sex Life

I have read and share so much sex tips online and these are the ideas that I never think of, not because these are very special things that I haven't think before but these are the things that are too normal that I get used to it so much and never pay any attention to do it. Let's see what tips are these.

Stay away from your tv, iphone, ipad, tablet, laptop or whatever gadget that you have now and spend some time with her. I did read an article that tv inside bedroom does affect sex life, the reason because couples spend too much time of watching tv and end up no more energy to have sex. This does help when you apply to your work life and planning. If you spend all your free time online or gaming you won't be able to plan for your future and sure you won't be able to spend your time with her.

While you are in a relationship for a long time, everything seems to be boring. Everything that you do or anywhere you go will be a lot more routine, she knows where you want to go even before you tell her. In a way it is something that is too predictable, so having some fun and surprise in life can't be wrong. Go somewhere new, take it as an adventure. A short trip, a long drive can make refresh your life and it will improve your sex life.

Focus on the good but not the bad. You can see a lot of couple fighting for small things even though they love each other a lot. You can learn to focus about her good and not those little things that you fight for. Do you know that good compliment can lead to good sex as well? When you give her good compliment and make her feel good, it will give her confidence and make the sex much better as she is focus on the good and not worry that she look bad in front of you. She can enjoy sex more and so does you.

Time management. Yes, allocate your time for sex, it's important. Sex is part of your life, it is not a trend for a short period but people have sex since there are human. It's part of your life, don't be shy that sex is important for you. Allocate the time for your sexual life and thus you may spend some quality sex time with your partner.

Thursday, August 25, 2011

Sex tips to boost her desire

These are some advise from the female, so you may just try it and see whether it apply to your partner. Women likes foreplay so this is something that you need to work it out, don't rush to sex, since guys don't actually last long during sex why not spend some time to enjoy her body. Do some caress, massage, kissing, licking, touching and others can create a very sensual foreplay before you go into sex. Some women even enjoy this more than the real sex when you penetrate her, so you know how to satisfy her even you don't have a large penis with you. They suggest that you may try to place her arms behind her head, this makes them feel that you're in charge, and they may like this, this makes them horny. Beware if she have encounter some violent experience previously, this may make her feel uncomfortable. The strength that you apply should be firm but not too strong, you have to adjust it properly according to her needs. This move here is good for sex when you use missionary and also during foreplay. There is another move here that the girls suggest that it will turn them on easily, it's slipping your hand in her hair. Trace the hair line and gently apply some pressure on her head, again, comfortable strength but not too relax as you don't want her to fall asleep after this. Don't do this too long so that she won't fall in to sleep. And another tips to boost her desire, this is the easy one and definitely you will like it. Compliment and sweet talk! There are tons of things that you can tell her, remember in a very soft tone, make it sexy. Tell her how much you like about her sexy body, lips or breast, and you like her move, oral sex for you and so on. Make her feel that you appreciate her body and what she did for you. These tips here can help you to have better sex with your partner and they will feel so much better when they know you take the effort to help them orgasm.

Tuesday, August 23, 2011

Sex tips for her

When you are thinking of how to pleasure your man and want him to enjoy sex between you, remember one thing, it's easy to do so. Guys are always easy to turn on, but you have to satisfied their eyes and know how to seduce them. So how can you do that? Men doesn't need foreplay, but they something to turn them on, they may have a bad day at work, and a sexy lingerie in you will make his day. Guys always enjoy to see their women satisfy themselves, masturbate in front of him and let him know that you want to have sex with him. Don't be shy to do so as men like it a lot, and they feel so good when the woman is taking initiative to make the sex better. Make the sex fun and it will be a wonderful sex. Try to surprise your man with the lingerie while he step into the house, this will give him a very big surprise. When you are making love, don't just lie on the bed, there are a lot of things that you can do to make sex more fun and explosive. We will come into detail next time. We always talk about communication in relationship, sex as well. Give him some hints or guide during sex that can make you orgasm or making you feel better. If you don't want to make it too obvious, try to hint him or just encourage him when he is on the right track.

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Sex tips for kissing women

We have talk about foreplay and kiss for many times here, we have not discuss about the sex tips for kissing a women. There are some favourite place that women like you to kiss, and these places are very sensitive, it will turn the women on and ask you for sex. So you may check all these sensitive places that they like it.

Ears - This is a sensitive place that is always forget by most of the men. Your mouth is the best way stimulate their sex drives. Gentle nibbling on the earlobe will make them ask for more.

Back of the neck - This is the best place for you to give her a surprise attack. You may give her a big hug on the back while she is doing her work, in the kitchen. You can see this in the movie all the time, it's not only movie, it's true that this place is very sensitive that make will make them want you kiss their other part of the body.

Collarbone - Collarbone is one sexy place that a lot of people like, but do you know that this is one of the women sensitive area that will make the women horny? This collarbone is the place where you can kiss while you haven't strip them off.

Breast - Breast is sure the best place that you know that can give her sexual stimulation, but don't just focus on the nipple. You should kiss the whole breast to make the women feel good. Women normally likes to be kissed gently and not hard unless she like it the hard way.

Hips & thigh - These 2 places is near to her sensitive area, it makes them feel like want to have sex when you kiss and licking these places. These 2 places is best to stimulate her before you go to the main entrance.

Kiss and sex just can't be separate, so when you want to have sex, kiss is always a good way to start it.