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Showing posts with label sex skill foreplay better sex. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sex skill foreplay better sex. Show all posts

Wednesday, March 12, 2014

Foreplay Tips In The Shower

If you want to give satisfaction to your woman when having sex, then you should know the importance of foreplay. This way, your partner  will be more enjoying her sexual experience. Most women enjoy longer foreplay, women will require more time to become aroused. This is where foreplay plays an important role. With foreplay, you'll gradually increase your woman's sexual tension. Moreover, not only will foreplay improve intimacy, but it also will make the sexual activity more enjoyable. However, every woman has their own preferences, so you need to understand what your partner wants, and you can act accordingly. There are many types of foreplay that you can try, and shower foreplay can be an interesting option for both of you.

Shower foreplay has given pleasure to many couples, the water that flows into your and your partner’s body will provide an incredible sensation. This type of foreplay is great for women who often have difficulty reaching intense orgasm. Shower foreplay can give satisfaction to your woman, even before you take her to bed.

Indeed, there are many people who do not have enough information about foreplay techniques, and if you've never heard of this before, you may need to try this technique. Maybe you already know that women have a lot of sensitive areas in her body, and you may also have often stimulated these areas prior to sex. But maybe you and your partner have never felt the sensation provided by warm, flowing water, exploring your and your partner’s body. This gives a tremendous sensation, and your partner will definitely enjoy this more than the sensation she had ever felt before. If you are interested in trying shower foreplay, here are some simple tips that can give a huge change in your sex life.

- You can start by placing a bench in the shower. Sit on the bench, and let her sit on top of you pinning your body. You can hug her while doing sexual movements without involving penetration.
- The water that flows through your body can act as a lubricant, when your body rubs each other, both of you will feel immense sexual pleasure. Caress her body gently, move your hands following the running water on her body. And kiss her neck to add the intimacy, she will definitely love this stimulation.
- Furthermore, you can use soap when caressing her body. Soap will make your caress feels even softer. Apply soap to her entire body, use your hands to gently massage her body. It will double the stimulation she feels.
-  When you're done with soap, rinse her body with water. Once she's clean, you can give her oral stimulation. Fresh scent of her body will make you enjoy this job. It is a fun foreplay before sex.

Longer foreplay will delight your partner, and if you know some foreplay tip, it will be even helps you lasting longer in bed. Foreplay can be done anywhere you want, even in the shower. So you do not have to start the foreplay when you are already in bed. You can start the foreplay anywhere else, and end it up in bed.

Saturday, March 8, 2014

Boost Her Sexual Pleasure With Clitoral And G-Spot Orgasms

Seeing our partner smiling with satisfaction after sex is something that will make us proud. Every man wants to give sexual pleasure to their partner, therefore, many of them are looking for tips on how to please a woman in bed. When it comes to sex, you will find many tips on how to satisfy a woman. And although you will find different tips on the internet, but basically, there are always similarities between them. Almost all of those tips stated that you need to focus on two areas when you're having sex, and they are the clitoris and G spot. They are the most sensitive areas of women’s body. The clitoris is the easiest part because you can find it easily. Women will reach orgasm easily when their clitoris being stimulated, and when masturbating, most of them also have an orgasm from sexual stimulation in this area. As for the G spot, this part is quite difficult to identify because it is located inside the vagina, more precisely, slightly above the pubic bone. Women can have multiple orgasms when this area gets stimulus. Those are the two areas you need to focus on when you're making love with your partner, and here are the tips to stimulate those areas.


This area is very sensitive, and if it gets the correct stimulus, women will reach the climax faster. To stimulate the clitoris, you can use two fingers. Use these fingers to rub the top of the clitoral hood gently. Be careful when doing this because some women are not comfortable with direct stimulation of the clitoris because it can be painful. Therefore, you can start by giving her the right amount of pleasure with indirect stimulation. When she looks started to enjoy it, you can increase the speed of the stimulation. Aside from that, you can stimulate her clitoris with your tongue, and it seems that this is the most convenient way for women because besides the tongue is softer, the tongue could also provide some sort of lubrication.

Stimulating The G-Spot

The G spot cannot be seen from the outside, you have to insert your finger to feel it. With your palm facing up, insert your finger into the vagina. Move your finger with the ‘come here’ motion, and feel the top of the vaginal cavity, delicate and smooth. That is the G spot, and when this area is stimulated, the woman will be able to get a multiple orgasm. It is also often referred to as a deep orgasm, and it can last longer than a clitoral orgasm. She certainly will really enjoy this. The G spot is very sensitive, but anyway, you may need to start with a warm up first. After she got aroused, you can continue your stimulation to the clitoris. Stimulate her clitoris for some time, let her get to the edge of orgasm, then hold down your finger. Repeat this process a few times before you move on to the G spot stimulation.

If you are having problems in your sex life, you might consider trying the tips above. You may consider about natural male enhancement pill, it may help lasting longer in bed. Remember that you should be focused on two areas. This way, you will be able to make your partner happy when in bed. When you successfully deliver it, apparently, your bed will come back to life again.

Sunday, March 10, 2013

Better sex again from Esquire

We always discuss about better sex here. And today want to share with you some better sex tips from Esquire. It's quite similar to what we have discuss before, but I am going to share it again then you know how important it is.

You will be very familiar with this. Tell her she looks good and Taste good as well. When you tell her that she looks good, she will feel more comfortable and have a better mood for sex. It's important, sometimes the girls are not so confident with their body, if you tell them they look good they may feel better. When guys go down on his partner for oral sex, your compliment can help her to enjoy more.

Remember that we said that it's important to communicate if you want a better sex life? Yes, Esquire point it out that using your ears, ask them what they like and listen to it. They suggest that not to do it in the bedroom but discuss it some where else, this is gonna be exciting, it's like a foreplay outside the bedroom. It's gonna blow when both of you are in the room.

Touch her. Yes, you do know this, and touch her everywhere, with oil. Girls being touch and this will help them to get into the mood for sex. Touching her and it will release her hormones, raise their testosterone level and ignites her sex drive. This little adventure around her body will help you to have a passionate sex.

Take your time to undress, when you see stripper strip their dress off piece by piece, it's very tempting right? That's the point, don't rush to sex so soon, take your time, it will finally pay off. Make sure you don't smell bad, girls are sensitive to smell, if you have the time take a bath. You don't want to ruin a good sex just because you smell bad.

Remember that girls need to feel comfortable while having sex? If you want a better sex you have to help her to get into a more relax mood. Turn the lights down, candle lights may help to create a better environment. Studies also shows that when hug is more than 30 seconds, it will raise their anticipation for sex. It's not that hard to have better sex right?

Tuesday, February 5, 2013

Why you are not getting laid

You may have the experience that the girl you are dating, maybe a few times suddenly are not interested with you and you may wonder why. There are some real life cases that tell you that why you are not getting laid, some of them may look like nonsense to you but just bear in mind that this is how girls think. The hardest part is not having good sex. The hardest thing to control here, I think it maybe the conversation. You can't be too silent but when you are sharing something, you may have something that may offend her or make her unhappy. When you are sharing something about yourself, don't brag too much and try to be down to earth. Try to make her laugh at your jokes? Becareful with it, just look at her reaction all the time and try to know what she is thinking.

A late night snack that may turn her off? Yes, there is a case that the woman smell something from the guy he date and that just made her fell gross. The guy who took his snack with him to the woman's apartment ended up going back without anything happen. If the girl love you a lot sure you are on the safe side, but if the girl is sitting on the fence and trying to find something that she doesn't like about you, there are plenty of reasons that will turn her off. Not to mention that you want a better sex. What you can do here is trying your best to avoid it. Your cleanliness, not only yourself but your room as well. A lot of women will feel gross if your room is too dirty. There are two cases in this article of Men fitness mention about cleanliness, one of them saw some used condom beside the dustbin, the other saw a mess under the bed. Used condom just lying on the floor of your room? I think any of the reasonable men know that it's stupid, you make the girl feel like a slut to hang out with guys like you.

Do you have a dog with you in your apartment? Make sure he or she won't interrupt you while you are having sex. A girl experienced this before that the guy she met have a dog in the room, and the dog licks her leg while they are trying to have sex. It's a big distraction, and when she complains about it, the guy just petting his dog and the girl feels strange as she is petting him but he is petting a dog? She just left without a word. Kissing skill, this is the foreplay, you may have to practice it more unless you met a girl who loves you a lot and doesn't care about sex life. There are no short cuts but to practice it with your girl friend.

So guys, don't only think about improving your sex skill, all these things here can affect you as well. There are no cure for all these, you can only learn and becareful with them.

Wednesday, January 23, 2013

Sexual Performance Anxiety

Men always have some pressure of sexual performance, the mindset and thinking that is in the society makes them believe that they should have thoughts like this. Examples are as follow:


-can always get an erection.
-should initiate sex.
-always want sex.
-should be in control.
-give women mind-blowing orgasms.
-should have a big penis, and if they don’t, they are inadequate.
-should know what to do in the bedroom.
-should succeed.
-should hide any feelings of inadequacy or vulnerability

All these believes makes men so worried and always thinking different ways to improve sex life and sometimes they worry too much that it affect their sexual performance. They need to know that sex itself is an activity that involve 2 parties and it depends on both parties to have a good sex life. If you are worry about things like this on the bed, how are you going to enjoy sex? Like what we have discuss before, sex depend on 2 person, it require communication, different people have different preference, you can't bring all your previous experience to expect it works perfectly in current relationships. Communicate and learn is a process.


-Ask your partner to caress you, and say how you would like to be touched.
-Consciously breathe during sex.
-Say yes when you want to.
-Say no when you want to.
-Have sex only when you want it.
-Self-pleasure (masturbate) slowly.
-Fantasize when you self-pleasure.
-Touch yourself all over, and notice where it feels good.
-Talk about sex with your partner.
-Have a sexual experience with your partner without having intercourse.
-Touch your partner’s body for your own pleasure.
-Take care of your body.

There are some creative ways for you to improve sex life with your partners here. Yes, masturbate is good sometimes as it helps you to learn more about yourself, it's a way to learn about yourself. There is no shy to masturbate. Know about your body, know where is your sensitive area, you can let your partner know about it and they will know how to pleasure and satisfy you. Foreplay is a very good way to learn about your partner's body, and we have mention many time that girls do enjoy a lot during foreplay. Most of them enjoy it more than sex itself. Learn about their body and you can make them orgasm in no time and sure they will give you a very good response.

Wednesday, January 16, 2013

Why do people have sex?

Came across an article research why people have sex, omg, I though it's in our blood? And people still setup  research to find it out. Sex is a need of all kind of animals, right? The report seems to make sex more reasonable by saying that our brain and body are design to motivate us to have sex more. Even that we are not design the way it is, we are born for it. I think that's why we have 2 kind of sexes since we exist, male and female.

And sex can do so much of good to you, well let me come out with some reason to make sex better. Sex burns calories, I bet this is one of the most interesting way to burn calories, do you know that even kissing can burn calories as well? What else? Having sex makes your mood better, you will have a more pleasant day when you have satisfying sex, right? Sex does reduce stress, and this kind of entertainment is much better than other, it's free, ok if you have a partner. You prefer to have sex or movie or even a football match?

"Dummies.com said that many people engage in sex for the sensory experience, the wide range of physical and emotional pleasures that a person can derive from sexual activity. Part of the glue that holds longtime love together is sex" Ha, now only I know that dummies site also talk about sex. The sensory experience, the need of being hug and feel of being care and love. I guess that's the emotional pleasures means here. Sex is also one of the main factor that helps to make the relationship stronger, sex is something that can't be miss from a romantic relationship.

Having babies, is it a good thing or bad thing? It really depends on you, but luckily most of us still love to have our own children, I guess babies is one of the good thing about sex. Sex can improve social status and a kind of revenge as well? The social status it means here is to become popular, the only thing that I can think of it is using sex as a tool to become a star. And revenge? That is a very bad way to revenge, sex as a revenge?


Sunday, January 13, 2013

Sex Advice

I had share with you that a sex text is always a good foreplay even when they are not in front of you. This can help them to be in the mood for sex before you even start foreplay. It's a good way to stimulate your partner if you are in a rush, a quickie. You will hope that your partner is enjoying sex even it's a quickie, everyone is hoping they can have a better sex life, and only some text message can help you to make the sex better, isn't it amazing?

Text flirting is one of the foreplay, so if you can make a good foreplay, you will have better sex. Don't think that this texting thing won't help you. Go for it.

There are some samples here that can help you, it's from Red Book Mag. I'm sure you can search online for more flirty text message to turn your partner on when he or she is still working. The text messages here are some examples, and it's from her to him, guys you have to come up with your own.

-"I'm trying on bras but I need a second opinion."
-"Waiting for you at home: beer, chips, and best of all, me!"
-"You, last night. #makingmeblushtoday"
-"Tonight's plan: making you appreciate chocolate as much as I do. You'll see."
-"Picked up a surprise for after the kids go to sleep. I think we need to move up their bedtime for tonight."
-"I found my cheerleading outfit. It still fits."
-"My thoughts are unusually R-rated today. I can't imagine why…"
-"So, I'm really learning a lot at that pole dancing class…"
-"This text message is a gift certificate for one move of your choice tonight. Present it at the door."
-"No kids. No panties. No rules."

The best thing about these sex messages, it takes you not more than 5 second to read it. Can we say that you may turn him on in 5 seconds? Remotely! Girls don't worry that your body is not in shape, your breast is not the same size, guys won't be able to notice that when they are having sex with you. Of course you can always improve yourself to have better sex, but don't give yourself too much pressure during sex. You may do all these in your daily life. Not in shape? Do some exercise, have a jog, find something that you enjoy so you won't feel the pain while working out. My friend will turn on the music and dancing while she is cleaning the floor.

Monday, April 16, 2012

What he wants?

There are a lot of things that you can do better in sex, not only guys, but for you ladies out there as well. If you enjoy sex as much as he does then just start to read some articles online, do some research about it, communicate with him, trial and error then you will become his sex goddess that no other woman are able to do so. Men do like you to like sex as much as he does, then he won't need to persuade you to do so and most important they know that you like to make love with them. It's a matter of self esteem. And of course if they can have sex with you right away then they really like it.

Most of the ladies do like men to turn them on, but some of the time, men do enjoy that the women is turn on already and asking them for sex. You may do some foreplay yourself for self pleasure, and when your sex partner starts to kiss you for foreplay, you are ready to start it but not a long warm up period. If you want to have a better sex life, a little effort can helps a lot, and I believe this is the easy thing for you to do.

Sunday, June 27, 2010

Creative & Better Sex

Most of you sure think of a totally different way to have sex or creatively change the whole sex thing. Well the thing that we are sharing here today is to make sex a bit more fun. The day to day sex is very boring for most of the couple as they have been together for maybe 10 years, they know each other so well and they know what is the next move, and they may already know the brand of the particular bra or underwear that you are wearing. The sex is only a routine job and there are no fun at all, when sex had reached such a situation, couple have to work it out and find a solution for it.

What I suggest here is that couples should put some time to work it out by making more surprises, mystery, fresh, any creative thing that you can ever think to make it the sex better and better. There are a lot of things that can be done, for instance. You may put a candle in your room and some aroma candles in your bedroom to make some wonderful scene that can make both of you relax yourself. There are a lot of costume in the shop that you can buy now, and these costume is like a fantasy for your sex partner. Partners should communicate more and find out more about the other sexual fantasies and need, then you may act according to the their preference. Sure this sexual stimulation may boost your partners sex drives immediately. The last thing that I'm going to share is the hotel in your neibourhood. This hotel may not be 5 star hotel, a 3 star is good enough. Find some romantic places and share it with them, then you can make your sex life more creative, then you may expect more surprise in you sex life.


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Wednesday, June 23, 2010

Sensual Sex

When talk about sex, guys will tend to brag about how good they are, what kind of skill they possess, how large is their penis, the girls is begging them for sex, they are so good talking girls into making love with them, how long they can have sex without ejaculate, how many girls they make love with in one day, etc. How many of you know that the thing that make sense here is how the girls feel, it's the most important thing. They will only have orgasm if they have the feel of high, being love. Touching their G spot may make them high, but it's temporary. It's touching their heart that make sense and this will last for quite a long long time. So now you know that foreplay is not the first thing in sex, but touching their heart. Do something that can touch her heart, and this is not a one time thing as well. Find something, do something, be creative and it can be simple as a rose on her bed early in the morning. These are the things that can touch her heart, and it cost you only a nickle, a note on the mirror cost you nothing but these little things that touch her heart and makes them want to be with you, want you to love them (making love with them).

These are the the thing that can make them high even before you touch them, what will they feel when you start to touch them, kiss them, hug them? This is the 'foreplay' before the real foreplay, and you can do it anytime long before you have sex. You can touch her g-spot in the heart that no one else can, this is the orgasm in the heart. You can satisfy not only her body needs but their spirit, their heart and the orgasm they have, the love they have will make them so satisfy that they won't want to leave you. And this is the best sex skill that anyone can do even they have very poor sex practice. No worry if you have small penis, bad sex skill, these disadvantage can solve easily by using some product, massage, you can learn it all the time.



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