Foreplay Tips In The Shower

If you want to give satisfaction to your woman when having sex, then you should know the importance of foreplay. This way, your partner  will be more enjoying her sexual experience. Most women enjoy longer foreplay, women will require more time to become aroused. This is where foreplay plays an important role. With foreplay, you'll gradually increase your woman's sexual tension. Moreover, not only will foreplay improve intimacy, but it also will make the sexual activity more enjoyable. However, every woman has their own preferences, so you need to understand what your partner wants, and you can act accordingly. There are many types of foreplay that you can try, and shower foreplay can be an interesting option for both of you.

Shower foreplay has given pleasure to many couples, the water that flows into your and your partner’s body will provide an incredible sensation. This type of foreplay is great for women who often have difficulty reaching intense orgasm. Shower foreplay can give satisfaction to your woman, even before you take her to bed.

Indeed, there are many people who do not have enough information about foreplay techniques, and if you've never heard of this before, you may need to try this technique. Maybe you already know that women have a lot of sensitive areas in her body, and you may also have often stimulated these areas prior to sex. But maybe you and your partner have never felt the sensation provided by warm, flowing water, exploring your and your partner’s body. This gives a tremendous sensation, and your partner will definitely enjoy this more than the sensation she had ever felt before. If you are interested in trying shower foreplay, here are some simple tips that can give a huge change in your sex life.

- You can start by placing a bench in the shower. Sit on the bench, and let her sit on top of you pinning your body. You can hug her while doing sexual movements without involving penetration.

- The water that flows through your body can act as a lubricant, when your body rubs each other, both of you will feel immense sexual pleasure. Caress her body gently, move your hands following the running water on her body. And kiss her neck to add the intimacy, she will definitely love this stimulation.

- Furthermore, you can use soap when caressing her body. Soap will make your caress feels even softer. Apply soap to her entire body, use your hands to gently massage her body. It will double the stimulation she feels.

-  When you're done with soap, rinse her body with water. Once she's clean, you can give her oral stimulation. Fresh scent of her body will make you enjoy this job. It is a fun foreplay before sex.

Longer foreplay will delight your partner, and if you know some foreplay tip, it will be even helps you lasting longer in bed. Foreplay can be done anywhere you want, even in the shower. So you do not have to start the foreplay when you are already in bed. You can start the foreplay anywhere else, and end it up in bed.

Sex Life after 50

In our mind, sex always related to penis and vagina. We have articles previously discussing about using your other body parts to pleasure your partner, your hand and mouth. That is oral sex and hand job, so called. Women are more sensitive in sex and they require something other than just penetration in the vagina. Our previous articles do suggest that using your hand and mouth for foreplay, this article here from Huffingtonpost suggest that you may use them further in sex as a method to satisfy women’s sexual needs.

How to maintain a hard erection after age of 50

The article perspective is that men may suffer some sort of physical weakness or erectile dysfunction at the age of 50. They may still active in sex but they may not related to penetration. It’s another idea of having active sex life at an older age, which is quite a good idea for both parties and still able to have better sex life. Communication is a must to have such a sex life as either party may have different thought regarding it, they may think that it’s not appropriate as most of the men think that penetration is a must in sex life.

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The best part about sex life without penetration is that it doesn’t pressure on men’s penis erection, both parties still able to enjoy sex. After the age of 50, there are a lot of other method that can help you to enjoy in sex, For example sex toys. The article also mentions that men have anal pleasure as well, this is quite new for me, if you happen to read this why not try it as well, wonder it will convert men into gay. Well, all these ideas here is a way to explore more in sex life and some of us are still so conservative in sex life. It’s still not too late to explore more in sex. 

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Better Sexual Relationship with Trust

When talking about how to start a sexual relationship with girls, what we have in mind is how do we seduce her or lure her into bedroom. I think there are some articles here to discuss about better sexual relationship thing, well today we look it from the other perspective, not talking about having good sex technique for better sex. Not talking about the seducing part, that's the playboy style, why not today we do it with the good guy method. How you open up her heart and gain her trust to make her feel comfortable to have sex with you. If you are not able to open up her heart how are you going to get her having sex with you without hesitation?

When you are able to open up her heart, then she is more willing to share her things with you. When you are trying to gain her trust, you are not doing all the talking only but may lead the conversation to let her to express herself more. This is the way for you to get to know her more. Let her know that you can be there for her all the time and you are her best friend. Don't get caught in the middle and going directly into her friend zone, you may not be able to get out from it then. How do you do that? Don't reveal yourself fully, keep some mystery feel between both of you. A little mystery may lead to a better sexual relationship at the start. When you reveal too much about yourself, you may let her feel that you are too easy to handle, so it's better that you know how to make things interesting and maintain some mystery about yourself.

During the conversation, you may let her feel that you have some sexual desire of feel with her, implied. You have to take some risk here as you may not knowing her well, But it's ok to have some kind of trial and error, if you are not taking any risk, you may let her feel that you are too boring, let her feel some excitement.  After all, you want to make good love to her and not only a friend, you have nothing much to loss right. Who knows that she may have the same thought as you? If she is thinking the same thing then you may get what you want immediately.

Better sex again from Esquire

We always discuss about better sex here. And today want to share with you some better sex tips from Esquire. It's quite similar to what we have discuss before, but I am going to share it again then you know how important it is.

You will be very familiar with this. Tell her she looks good and Taste good as well. When you tell her that she looks good, she will feel more comfortable and have a better mood for sex. It's important, sometimes the girls are not so confident with their body, if you tell them they look good they may feel better. When guys go down on his partner for oral sex, your compliment can help her to enjoy more.

Remember that we said that it's important to communicate if you want a better sex life? Yes, Esquire point it out that using your ears, ask them what they like and listen to it. They suggest that not to do it in the bedroom but discuss it some where else, this is gonna be exciting, it's like a foreplay outside the bedroom. It's gonna blow when both of you are in the room.

Touch her. Yes, you do know this, and touch her everywhere, with oil. Girls being touch and this will help them to get into the mood for sex. Touching her and it will release her hormones, raise their testosterone level and ignites her sex drive. This little adventure around her body will help you to have a passionate sex.

Take your time to undress, when you see stripper strip their dress off piece by piece, it's very tempting right? That's the point, don't rush to sex so soon, take your time, it will finally pay off. Make sure you don't smell bad, girls are sensitive to smell, if you have the time take a bath. You don't want to ruin a good sex just because you smell bad.

Remember that girls need to feel comfortable while having sex? If you want a better sex you have to help her to get into a more relax mood. Turn the lights down, candle lights may help to create a better environment. Studies also shows that when hug is more than 30 seconds, it will raise their anticipation for sex. It's not that hard to have better sex right?

Why you are not getting laid

You may have the experience that the girl you are dating, maybe a few times suddenly are not interested with you and you may wonder why. There are some real life cases that tell you that why you are not getting laid, some of them may look like nonsense to you but just bear in mind that this is how girls think. The hardest part is not having good sex. The hardest thing to control here, I think it maybe the conversation. You can't be too silent but when you are sharing something, you may have something that may offend her or make her unhappy. When you are sharing something about yourself, don't brag too much and try to be down to earth. Try to make her laugh at your jokes? Becareful with it, just look at her reaction all the time and try to know what she is thinking.

A late night snack that may turn her off? Yes, there is a case that the woman smell something from the guy he date and that just made her fell gross. The guy who took his snack with him to the woman's apartment ended up going back without anything happen. If the girl love you a lot sure you are on the safe side, but if the girl is sitting on the fence and trying to find something that she doesn't like about you, there are plenty of reasons that will turn her off. Not to mention that you want a better sex. What you can do here is trying your best to avoid it. Your cleanliness, not only yourself but your room as well. A lot of women will feel gross if your room is too dirty. There are two cases in this article of Men fitness mention about cleanliness, one of them saw some used condom beside the dustbin, the other saw a mess under the bed. Used condom just lying on the floor of your room? I think any of the reasonable men know that it's stupid, you make the girl feel like a slut to hang out with guys like you.

Do you have a dog with you in your apartment? Make sure he or she won't interrupt you while you are having sex. A girl experienced this before that the guy she met have a dog in the room, and the dog licks her leg while they are trying to have sex. It's a big distraction, and when she complains about it, the guy just petting his dog and the girl feels strange as she is petting him but he is petting a dog? She just left without a word. Kissing skill, this is the foreplay, you may have to practice it more unless you met a girl who loves you a lot and doesn't care about sex life. There are no short cuts but to practice it with your girl friend.

So guys, don't only think about improving your sex skill, all these things here can affect you as well. There are no cure for all these, you can only learn and becareful with them.

Sexual Performance Anxiety

Men always have some pressure of sexual performance, the mindset and thinking that is in the society makes them believe that they should have thoughts like this. Examples are as follow:


-can always get an erection.
-should initiate sex.
-always want sex.
-should be in control.
-give women mind-blowing orgasms.
-should have a big penis, and if they don’t, they are inadequate.
-should know what to do in the bedroom.
-should succeed.
-should hide any feelings of inadequacy or vulnerability

All these believes makes men so worried and always thinking different ways to improve sex life and sometimes they worry too much that it affect their sexual performance. They need to know that sex itself is an activity that involve 2 parties and it depends on both parties to have a good sex life. If you are worry about things like this on the bed, how are you going to enjoy sex? Like what we have discuss before, sex depend on 2 person, it require communication, different people have different preference, you can't bring all your previous experience to expect it works perfectly in current relationships. Communicate and learn is a process.


-Ask your partner to caress you, and say how you would like to be touched.
-Consciously breathe during sex.
-Say yes when you want to.
-Say no when you want to.
-Have sex only when you want it.
-Self-pleasure (masturbate) slowly.
-Fantasize when you self-pleasure.
-Touch yourself all over, and notice where it feels good.
-Talk about sex with your partner.
-Have a sexual experience with your partner without having intercourse.
-Touch your partner’s body for your own pleasure.
-Take care of your body.

There are some creative ways for you to improve sex life with your partners here. Yes, masturbate is good sometimes as it helps you to learn more about yourself, it's a way to learn about yourself. There is no shy to masturbate. Know about your body, know where is your sensitive area, you can let your partner know about it and they will know how to pleasure and satisfy you. Foreplay is a very good way to learn about your partner's body, and we have mention many time that girls do enjoy a lot during foreplay. Most of them enjoy it more than sex itself. Learn about their body and you can make them orgasm in no time and sure they will give you a very good response.

Why do people have sex?

Came across an article research why people have sex, omg, I though it's in our blood? And people still setup  research to find it out. Sex is a need of all kind of animals, right? The report seems to make sex more reasonable by saying that our brain and body are design to motivate us to have sex more. Even that we are not design the way it is, we are born for it. I think that's why we have 2 kind of sexes since we exist, male and female.

And sex can do so much of good to you, well let me come out with some reason to make sex better. Sex burns calories, I bet this is one of the most interesting way to burn calories, do you know that even kissing can burn calories as well? What else? Having sex makes your mood better, you will have a more pleasant day when you have satisfying sex, right? Sex does reduce stress, and this kind of entertainment is much better than other, it's free, ok if you have a partner. You prefer to have sex or movie or even a football match?

"Dummies.com said that many people engage in sex for the sensory experience, the wide range of physical and emotional pleasures that a person can derive from sexual activity. Part of the glue that holds longtime love together is sex" Ha, now only I know that dummies site also talk about sex. The sensory experience, the need of being hug and feel of being care and love. I guess that's the emotional pleasures means here. Sex is also one of the main factor that helps to make the relationship stronger, sex is something that can't be miss from a romantic relationship.

Having babies, is it a good thing or bad thing? It really depends on you, but luckily most of us still love to have our own children, I guess babies is one of the good thing about sex. Sex can improve social status and a kind of revenge as well? The social status it means here is to become popular, the only thing that I can think of it is using sex as a tool to become a star. And revenge? That is a very bad way to revenge, sex as a revenge?

Sex Advice

I had share with you that a sex text is always a good foreplay even when they are not in front of you. This can help them to be in the mood for sex before you even start foreplay. It's a good way to stimulate your partner if you are in a rush, a quickie. You will hope that your partner is enjoying sex even it's a quickie, everyone is hoping they can have a better sex life, and only some text message can help you to make the sex better, isn't it amazing?

Text flirting is one of the foreplay, so if you can make a good foreplay, you will have better sex. Don't think that this texting thing won't help you. Go for it.

There are some samples here that can help you, it's from Red Book Mag. I'm sure you can search online for more flirty text message to turn your partner on when he or she is still working. The text messages here are some examples, and it's from her to him, guys you have to come up with your own.

-"I'm trying on bras but I need a second opinion."
-"Waiting for you at home: beer, chips, and best of all, me!"
-"You, last night. #makingmeblushtoday"
-"Tonight's plan: making you appreciate chocolate as much as I do. You'll see."
-"Picked up a surprise for after the kids go to sleep. I think we need to move up their bedtime for tonight."
-"I found my cheerleading outfit. It still fits."
-"My thoughts are unusually R-rated today. I can't imagine why…"
-"So, I'm really learning a lot at that pole dancing class…"
-"This text message is a gift certificate for one move of your choice tonight. Present it at the door."
-"No kids. No panties. No rules."

The best thing about these sex messages, it takes you not more than 5 second to read it. Can we say that you may turn him on in 5 seconds? Remotely! Girls don't worry that your body is not in shape, your breast is not the same size, guys won't be able to notice that when they are having sex with you. Of course you can always improve yourself to have better sex, but don't give yourself too much pressure during sex. You may do all these in your daily life. Not in shape? Do some exercise, have a jog, find something that you enjoy so you won't feel the pain while working out. My friend will turn on the music and dancing while she is cleaning the floor.

Sex Tips for Better Sex Life

I have read and share so much sex tips online and these are the ideas that I never think of, not because these are very special things that I haven't think before but these are the things that are too normal that I get used to it so much and never pay any attention to do it. Let's see what tips are these.

Stay away from your tv, iphone, ipad, tablet, laptop or whatever gadget that you have now and spend some time with her. I did read an article that tv inside bedroom does affect sex life, the reason because couples spend too much time of watching tv and end up no more energy to have sex. This does help when you apply to your work life and planning. If you spend all your free time online or gaming you won't be able to plan for your future and sure you won't be able to spend your time with her.

While you are in a relationship for a long time, everything seems to be boring. Everything that you do or anywhere you go will be a lot more routine, she knows where you want to go even before you tell her. In a way it is something that is too predictable, so having some fun and surprise in life can't be wrong. Go somewhere new, take it as an adventure. A short trip, a long drive can make refresh your life and it will improve your sex life.

Focus on the good but not the bad. You can see a lot of couple fighting for small things even though they love each other a lot. You can learn to focus about her good and not those little things that you fight for. Do you know that good compliment can lead to good sex as well? When you give her good compliment and make her feel good, it will give her confidence and make the sex much better as she is focus on the good and not worry that she look bad in front of you. She can enjoy sex more and so does you.

Time management. Yes, allocate your time for sex, it's important. Sex is part of your life, it is not a trend for a short period but people have sex since there are human. It's part of your life, don't be shy that sex is important for you. Allocate the time for your sexual life and thus you may spend some quality sex time with your partner.

Looking for a night with no string attached

When you are looking for a one night stand, and you would want to know that the other party have the same feel about it or not, how? Is the girl looking a one night stand, a sex partner or she treats you as a long term relationship partner? There are actually a lot of different way to find out, of course ask her directly is the most straight forward way to find out. Check for these sign and it may help you to find out.

She always looks for you during day time, this indicate that she is most likely to treat you as a long-term relationship partner and hopes to be with you. On the other hand if she is expecting to have sex with you, she is most likely to date you at night as this is the party time and may lead to her bedroom or hotel after party. Alcohol gives you the feel of more relax, and more likely end up with sex as both of you are relax and not so defensive.

Groupon. This can be a sign as well? Yes. When they always plan it in advance and make arrangement, reservation with you that means they are more potential in long term relationship. They are not seeing you as their last resort but reserve their time for you. If she calls you last minute to meet up and sure they just looking for someone to fill up their free time, it may not be something serious. Some of the girls may look for sex last minute and it happen to be with you, sure this is the kind of candidate for sex partner.

Facebook may give you a hint, you may know about it if they wrote something about you. They may not wrote it so straight forward but this, you have to figure it out. A lady who is serious in relationship and still they update their status that they are being with you, they are expecting a long term relationship from you. If the girl you hand out with is a party girl, their status update may just a show off of their life, a hang out with a handsome guy like you.

There are just some of the sign that can help you to find out, you still need to look at the whole picture to find out.

Yoga & sex

Read an article online saying men using yoga to dates. This is not about how you use yoga to improve you sexual performance, or using doing yoga together with your love one to enhance the sexual relationship. I do think that yoga may help to improve sex, but sure it's not suitable for everyone. I think most of the men will have the same thought as mine, learn yoga and bench my body like that to improve sex? I rather take a Viagra pill that may kill me. I do enjoy to exercise with a bunch of sexy girls in the classroom, but I won't be able to stand properly after the class. It won't be useful for a guy like me.

Is this new? Don't think so, I remember I watched a movie about 10 years ago that the handsome guy is using the yoga class as a way to tackle girls.

There are also a lot of cases that the yoga instructor is having sex with their students, a female yoga teacher said what can you expect when the male instructor is in a classroom full of female students in lycra? And some of the yoga post do look sexy right? I wonder what will happen if the male instructor is getting an erect during the class, and you know how soft the fabric can be. This is totally awesome.

Sex pill isn't the answer for all erectile dysfunction issue

When it comes to erectile dysfunction, sex pill like Viagra, Cialis, Levitra, Activ Homme, Maxman, A1Satibo, Extenze are not the answer to it. You should find the cause that create this erectile dysfunction effect. Problems like unemployment, stress in the job can lead to low self esteem with the men, and this will lead to erectile dysfunction. And problems here may create problem in your relationship thus make ED a bigger problem in your relationship. Doctor suggest a medical therapy that combines erectile dysfunction pills and good relationship may have better result.

Study shows that when sexual relationship between husband and wife gone bad, their relationship are bad as well. They may love each other but they lost the interest to have sex with each other. Both parties are responsible for this and need to take some effort to improve sexual relationship. Research also shows that among the men who suffer erectile dysfunction, 50% of their wives suffer sexual dysfunction as well. Low frequency of sexual intercourse will lead them to sexual dysfunction as well. A good quality of sexual relationship will improve the relationship and less fight in the partners, their overall life will tend to improve as well. There are no way that the sex pills can improve your sexual relationship so you have to work it out with your partner. It can give you a hard penis, and that's all. Check out the post here to find out how to improve your sexual relationship and make it more interesting. Communication is important to improve your sex life.