Tuesday, March 18, 2014
Just what is premature ejaculation?
There are many men out there who believe that they are suffering from premature ejaculation. I am sure you think you are too. Hence why you are here. Thankfully, most people who believe they have premature ejaculation really do not have it. Read on to find out whether you need to do something about it or not.
In the eye's of a doctor, premature ejaculation occurs when you last one and a half minutes or less in bed. On average men last around 7.3 minutes. However, in the eyes of others, there is no real definition to premature ejaculation. Many people who are surveyed think that lasting less than ten minutes in bed just is not good enough. In fact, there are plenty of people out there who are disappointed that they do not last any longer than twenty minutes. In short, people will always wants lasting longer in bed.
So, what actually causes premature ejaculation? The truth is, nobody really knows. Most sex experts seem to think that is down to early experiences in bed. They believe that most men when they were younger thought that they needed to be 'done' quickly just in case they were caught. This conditioned them to finish very quickly. Other reasons given for premature ejaculation include nervousness and anxiety (this could be caused by anything) or simply a poor diet.
Obviously premature ejaculation can be incredibly trying on a relationship. It can be difficult for both the male and female. It is therefore something which has to be dealt with pretty quickly. Thankfully, there are a number of options out there on the market.
Most cases of premature ejaculation are quite mild. If you are lasting longer than five minutes then you really do not need to head to the doctor. There are a couple of things that you can pick up from your local pharmacy. Perhaps the best option is a gel which reduces sensitivity in the penis. You can also pick up condoms which have the same effect. There are some men out there who also take a bit of alcohol before having sex. I do not suggest this though. Some people can last longer in bed as a result. However, more often than not it CAN lead to erectile dysfunction.
If you are suffering from premature ejaculation and last less than five minutes then you are going to need to look into other techniques. For example, you may want to carry out a bit of research into the masters-johnson method which has been surprisingly effective. You will also want to head on over to your doctor to see if there is any underlying reason as to why you are suffering from premature ejaculation. They will also be able to give you advice! Thankfully, no matter how serious you think your condition is, it is completely treatable. It may take a bit more work for some people. However, once you realize how long you can last in bed, all of that effort will be worth it.