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Showing posts with label low sex drive. Show all posts
Showing posts with label low sex drive. Show all posts

Wednesday, November 15, 2017

Fixing Sex Drives Issues For Youngster

For most people, youth is the best period of life. It’s a time of energy, power, vigor, and an incredible desire to live. And it’s also the time when our bodies are at their peak in the sense of their overall health and youthfulness. But if there’s one thing that goes hand in hand with youth – it’s the incredibly powerful sex drive that young people have, not to mention that it will affect your sexual desire as well.

But even young people are known to have sex drive issues at one time or another. And this, combined with the idealization of youth as a period where everything about our bodies needs to function perfectly – can have a devastating effect on the self-confidence of young people. So, if you’re young person and you’re facing issues with low sex drive, how can you go about fixing them?

Exercise plays a vital role
That’s right, chances are that you already knew this sound advice, but the fact that most everyone knows about the importance of exercise doesn’t make this advice any less potent. The best forms of exercise when it comes to sexual health are the cardiovascular training, and strength training. Both can be incredibly simple to do – you don’t need to over complicate things. A light 20-minute jog for a few times per week and a few strength training sessions a week in the gym where you will lift weights will be more than enough for the restoration of your sex drive.

Don’t forget about nutrition
Next in line is the nutrition, or what you eat. This too can have a profound effect on your sex drives as a young person. What you want to do is to ditch the processed foods that are laden with harmful chemicals that can wreak havoc on your body. On the other hand, you’ll want to increase your intake of nutritious, nourishing foods such as fruits and vegetables. The rule of thumb is that you should eat unprocessed foods that exist in nature and that you shouldn’t overeat. Also, make sure that you have an intake of various types of vegetables so that you will get all of the micronutrients that your body craves. In this way, you will increase the power of your sex drives dramatically.

Sleep more
For all its good things, youth is a period when we are at a loss of time to do all the things that we want. The 24-hour day is simply too short for all the things we want to do, and so we cut back on some important things, such as sleep, in order to artificially create more time. This is a mistake –, especially for our sex drives. You’ll want to sleep for at least 7-8 hours a day, every day if you’re to keep healthy and increase the power of your sex drives.

In conclusion
There are many factors that you need to consider if you’re a young person and you have issues with a low sex drive. The thing to be aware of here is that this is not something to be ashamed of, as even the most virile of people experience a downswing in their sex drive from time to time. Implement the advice from above, and you will most likely see an improvement in this critical area of your life.

Friday, May 2, 2014

Few things you should know about vaginal dryness

If your vagina doesn’t get enough moisture during the sexual intercourse it is very likely that you will experience unpleasant pain and even damages inside the vagina. Dry vagina is not only bad for you but it is also bad for your partner because he might experience pain and damages on the penis. In some cases the reason for this dryness is the fast foreplay and longer foreplay seems like a logical solution. Your partner can also use his tongue or saliva in order to penetrate more easily. It is completely natural that you will have certain problems with dryness during the menstrual period, because for example the tampon itself dries the vagina. That’s why you shouldn’t worry about the dryness during this period. 

Lack of wetness in vagina doesn’t always mean that you are having low sex drive. Sometimes there are periods when you are simply not that wet down there and using various products can help you. The best natural lubricant is of course the saliva but if you are having bigger problems you can use some other lubricants. Having sex with a condom that is already lubricated is another option. However you should be careful with the penetration – the penetration should be slow no matter what you use. If the vagina gets dry during the sex ask your partner to pull the penis out and use saliva for moisturizing.

When a woman reaches menopause it is a completely different situation. In these cases we are talking about hormonal changes and according to some statistics more than 20% of women have troubles with vaginal dryness during this period. We are talking about serious physical changes in the genitals and the urinary tract as well. During this period the estrogen levels are getting lower and the vaginal walls produce fewer fluids. It is very important that the partner fully understands this change and be patient. The vaginal dryness doesn’t mean lack of libido and low sex drive. If you don’t understand this change you will probably create an additional emotional problem. The vagina during menopause can still get wet but it takes more time. That’s why you should extend the time of the foreplay and you will see that the vagina will have the necessary moisture after a while.

How exactly can you moisten your vagina? Experts suggest avoiding bath oils, scented soaps, sprays and wipes for washing the vagina, because they can easily irritate the vagina and cause even more problems. It is also important to avoid decongestants and antihistamine products that are known for their role in vaginal dryness. You should use gels based on water which can be used on and inside the vagina and on your partner’s penis too. They don’t have any side effects and they are easy to apply. Having regular sexual intercourses is another useful thing in your fight against dryness, because these intercourses keep the blood flow in the genital area. If none of these things works consult a doctor.

Sunday, March 16, 2014

Boost Testosterone Level For Better Sexual Health

Adults take sex very seriously in their lives. Whether you are gay or straight, chances are you have had sexual urges at some point in your life. When we are a young adult that is when our sex drives are at their highest because our adrenal glands produce a lot more testosterone as we grow into maturity. Anytime you have a lot of testosterone, then you are going to have a high sex drive. That is why teenagers are always known for being the most sexually active and aggressive because their testosterone production is in overtime. A boost testosterone level also gives you more energy and less feelings of depression. Unfortunately, we all have to get older and that means we will suffer the consequences of old age. One of the horrible consequences of getting older is that our bodies will end up producing less testosterone. This means we will have a lower sex drive and may not be able to perform sexually with our partner. Women don’t really have this problem because they naturally are supposed to produce less testosterone than men. But for a man, having low testosterone can have detrimental effects on his self confidence and depression.

            Men take their sex lives very seriously. Chances are if a man has an active sex life, then he is probably not too depressed. The men who are depressed are usually the ones that are not having sex at all. Men with a lot of testosterone that can’t get sex might simply be shy. This obviously prevents them from being able to seduce a girl into a sexual relationship. A problem like this requires more mental therapy than any physical solution. But for the majority of men with sex problems, it is likely attributed to having low testosterone. There are two ways to fix this. You can try the natural way and exercise a lot more because exercise helps the adrenal glands release more testosterone into the body. However, if you are not the physical type then you can always try the easier solution and get some testosterone supplements. What’s good about supplements is that you can buy them over-the-counter or through a prescription from a doctor. The prescription is good if you need a specific dosage and don’t want too much testosterone in your body. This is normally what a woman would do who wants to take this supplement. For men, they don’t really care how much they take as long as they have enough testosterone to sexually perform with their partner.   

Tuesday, February 25, 2014

Improve Your Sexual Life

Sex is considered by many to be an important part of any relationship. To understand why, you must first realize that sex and love are two different things. In this day and age, there are lots of people that have casual sex who are not in love at all. They just do it because it gives them pleasure or they are still in the dating phase of their relationship. When it gets to the point where two people can say that they love each other, then the sex changes along with their feelings towards one another. This doesn't mean the sex necessarily gets worse, which is a common misconception among people who are afraid to make a commitment. The sex actually gets better when it is with somebody you love and want to spend the rest of your life with. That is why the first step in improve your sexual life is to find a partner that you can truly love and who will return that love for you.

If you just think that having multiple sexual partners is what a good sex life is all about, then you are mistaken. Unless you are as rich as Charlie Sheen or Hugh Hefner, chances are you won’t have the opportunities to have multiple sexual partners when you get older. That is why finding a partner that you are in love with is crucial because they won’t judge your looks as they start to fade. However, for a couple to improve their sex lives over the course of their relationship, they will have to get a little bit creative with the sex. If you just keep having sex in bed for a minute or two every night, then that is not exciting. Therefore, you have to find ways to make it exciting. Some couples find it exciting to do a little bit of role playing before the sex. 

This is where the two pretend to be different people who meet at a bar and then go “home” with each other to have sex. Another way couples improve their sex lives is to try different sexual positions in the bedroom. For this you should buy a KamaSutra guide that will teach you different sexual positions that will increase the sexual pleasure of the sex and make it more sensual. Overall, couples need to make time for each other and have sex in different ways as often as possible. If you both have busy schedules, then you should find at least a few minutes out of the day to have sex. This could even mean having a “quickie” on your desk at the office during your lunch break. Whatever you can fit in is better than nothing at all because the longer you go without having sex with your partner then the more likely one of you will cheat. Either that or you will resent one another to the point where it becomes a sexless marriage and you end up sleeping in separate beds. You have to keep the fire and romance alive in the relationship or else it will cease to exist. The more sex you have, it will further boost testosterone level and sexual desire.



Monday, August 5, 2013

New Born Baby Cause Low Sex Drive For Father

I think this is not a news for most of the parents, sure they have experience like this before. When there is a new born baby in the family, sure both of the parent's need time to learn how to take care the baby and get use to the life with a new member. There are a lot of research shows that there are low sex drive for mother but seldom research done on father. For women, their body have change so much since pregnant, now they have to worry about their body shape and some may feel depress as well. Breastfeeding is another new skill that they need to learn, do you even know that breastfeeding caused night sweat? Patience is needed when couples are going to enjoy sex again after delivery of the new baby.

For men, they may feel happy to be a father now. After back from work, they may feel exhausted to take care the children. It may lower their sex drive because of lack of time and energy, but most of the couples do resume their sex life after that. Physical habit may cause huge discomfort for sexual life. Most of the children will wake up at night and may wake the parents as well, it's a mental challenge as well. Read more about the article here at http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2381986/Having-new-baby-reduces-FATHERS-sex-drive-stressed-exhausted.html

Not many people have thoughts about sex life after the new member in the family, it takes lots of love, patient and responsibility to make the relationship strong. The working life and consuming behavior does give a lot of pressure to families now. People are so exhausted after back from work and now they need to take care the children. Financial pressure is another cause for low sex drive, sure parents will worry about the future when there are insufficient fund to raise the child. It's more challenging now to maintain a family now but still it's still worth the effort to do so.


Tuesday, June 18, 2013

Cure Low Sex Drive

Low sex drive can happen when getting older, this is a threat to everyone if you enjoy sex a lot. Well low sex drive can be cause by age and medical. Low sex drive will be a problem in the long run as sex is important in a relationship, low sex drive may lead to a situation where the partner is not satisfied with the sexual relationship and may ended up separate or cheating with another opposite sex. Know about the cause of low sex drive and it can be cure easily. For example, having low sex drive can be cure by sexual enhancement pill like Activ Homme, A1Satibo, and so on. these herbal enhancement pill can boost your performance in sex. It's a low risk, reliable and cheap solution that works in a very short time, it takes you only an hour to work eefectively.

http://www.health.com/health/condition-article/0,,20188340,00.html

Read the article above and you will know that it isn't the end of the world, it still can be cure. The other problem you will be encounter is the medicine that you are taking currently. You may consult your doctor and tell them about your problem, they may advise you and provide you with another medicine that won't affect your sexual health. These pills are powerful so that you may consult them regarding the side effect of the product.

The best way to cure your low sex drive is exercise, no matter how old you are, exercise can be very helpful. It increase your blood flow and make your heart stronger. If you are taking any medicine to cure your low sex drive without exercise, the effect will be much lower. Overweight problem can cause heart disease, diabetes and so on, these diseases can cause erectile dysfunction. This is not something you wish for.

Sunday, March 10, 2013

Better sex again from Esquire

We always discuss about better sex here. And today want to share with you some better sex tips from Esquire. It's quite similar to what we have discuss before, but I am going to share it again then you know how important it is.

You will be very familiar with this. Tell her she looks good and Taste good as well. When you tell her that she looks good, she will feel more comfortable and have a better mood for sex. It's important, sometimes the girls are not so confident with their body, if you tell them they look good they may feel better. When guys go down on his partner for oral sex, your compliment can help her to enjoy more.

Remember that we said that it's important to communicate if you want a better sex life? Yes, Esquire point it out that using your ears, ask them what they like and listen to it. They suggest that not to do it in the bedroom but discuss it some where else, this is gonna be exciting, it's like a foreplay outside the bedroom. It's gonna blow when both of you are in the room.

Touch her. Yes, you do know this, and touch her everywhere, with oil. Girls being touch and this will help them to get into the mood for sex. Touching her and it will release her hormones, raise their testosterone level and ignites her sex drive. This little adventure around her body will help you to have a passionate sex.

Take your time to undress, when you see stripper strip their dress off piece by piece, it's very tempting right? That's the point, don't rush to sex so soon, take your time, it will finally pay off. Make sure you don't smell bad, girls are sensitive to smell, if you have the time take a bath. You don't want to ruin a good sex just because you smell bad.

Remember that girls need to feel comfortable while having sex? If you want a better sex you have to help her to get into a more relax mood. Turn the lights down, candle lights may help to create a better environment. Studies also shows that when hug is more than 30 seconds, it will raise their anticipation for sex. It's not that hard to have better sex right?

Tuesday, December 25, 2012

What caused Low Sexual Drive

Low Sexual Drive is very common in female group, though there is an increasing number in male group as well. Low sex drive is a problem of hypoactive sexual desire disorder. In the mild case of low sex drive, it can be not interest to have sex during period, and some of the mild case may be they are not long to have sex or love making but they enjoy sex and orgasm at the same time. The extreme case of low sex drive may feel that sex is ugly and disgusting. You may need to consult a doctor if you have these symptoms.

There are a lot of reasons that may affect your body and mind that cause the low sex drive. The relationship problem between partners can cause low sex drive as well, if there are some conflict and uncertainties in relationship, they may have difficulties to find their interest in sex. The stress from family, working place can cause the problem as well. The working environment is getting more stressful and depress, it is affecting us in all aspect of live, it's very common case that it affect our quality of life and not to mention our sex life. Some of the time, the stressful live we have now is affecting our sleep, insomnia and lack of sleep will affect our quality of live and sexually as well.

If it's the body, it may cause by the medicine that you are taking lately, the Hormonal change in body like pregnancy, after child birth, breast feeding may cause low sex drive. Common medication like antidepressants and birth control pills interfere with sex drive, arousal and orgasm by affecting the balance of sexual hormones and the transmission of chemical messengers.

BermanSexualHealth.com wrote that menopause affects sexual desire by decreasing lubrication, lowering estrogen and testosterone levels, and other changes in the sexual response cycle. Numerous nonsexual diseases can cause HSDD, added Mayo Clinic. These include arthritis, cancer, diabetes, high blood pressure, coronary artery disease and neurological diseases.

If the medications are the cause of hypoactive sexual desire disorder, then just change it to the pills with fewer site effect. Try to find out the problem that caused low sex drive then you can solve the problem easily.